im so sick of men using us females sometimes i wish i waited longer when i lost my virginity well i wonder if our hole closes up when u stop havin sex for awhile??
anyone of you guys are now celibate(reborn again virgins) and if so how are u dealing with it?
2007-07-02 08:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by Cyntia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you did it once doesn't mean every guy has to be a part of that with you.... Be a choosy lover...be intimate for the right reasons...and act as you would when you were a virgin..."trying to wait for the right person, and not rushing it" i think females tend to forget about those things once they have had sex. I think you won't ever feel used if you are doing it for the right reasons and not just because you think it now has to be a part of every relationship or guy you encounter.....
2007-07-02 08:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by beyondeyezcanc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, your vagina doesn't "close up" if you're not having sex and once you've lost your virginity you cannot get it back (in spite of the surgery that is supposed to re-make you a virgin, you never truly will be again).
So take a break from guys...apparently you've made some poor choices (happens to most of us) and need to chill out for a while. Its okay...when you're ready to go again and meet someone of interest, then you'll do what's right for you.
There are over 3 billion males on the planet, not all (by far) are users...but many people (male and female) are opportunists so if you don't want to be used, don't allow it.
2007-07-02 15:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was celibate until the day I was married. Never had to be "reborn again." How did I deal with it? Just kept myself busy. There is a LOT more to life than sex.
2007-07-02 15:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going through all that nonsense, why don't you simply work on choosing better men. You and I both know that not all guys out there are horrible people. Taking the so-called born again virgin route is really just a cop-out.
2007-07-02 15:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This does not sound the only severe problem of our life - if the hole closes or opens more or less! Guess, it is how we enslave our physical rashing sensuality under our own human commands ... love is not lusting attitude between a male and a female but various methods in life ... seek your best suiting your being human being.
2007-07-02 15:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it always the men using people? Huh? Don't you think some women use men for things? -coughs- Money, stability, even trying to get pregnant so they stay with them... I'm not saying a whole bunch of women do this, but it does happen.
BTW, you only get used for sex when you let people do that!
2007-07-02 15:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
How about just using another organ? Like your brain?
Stop blaming other people for tricking or dousing you with liquor etc. etc. -- when if you had an identity, and knew what you were doing with men, you wouldn't have to post this weak a resolution.. come on now, "man up", so to speak.
2007-07-02 15:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The hymen will never grow back, so once you lose your virginity, it's gone forever. Take time away from the boys, discover yourself, and when you find your inner strength, find a real MAN. Good luck!
2007-07-02 15:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by K Jak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when girls stop having sex for a while... you will tighten up again and when you begin to have sex again it will seem like you are a virgin but some people say that it is worse....there is nothing wrong with wanting to stop having sex.. i think that is great... i wish i could stop... but i like it to much..lol
2007-07-02 15:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your hole doesn't close up from lack of use,
I would suggest you chose your partners better and let it known up front that you are not interested in sex right away,, alot of people like sex and not the aggravation of a relationship,
2007-07-02 15:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋