wanted a family and the usual stuff! Why can't i forget her? Why can't i go out to find a girl who wants the same things as me? She broke up with me coz i said bad things about her druggie gay friends! She thinks i hate them because of they're Gay but i avoid them because they do drugs!
2007-07-02 06:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by Lestat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you ask me you sound too good for this gal.
Don't be sad, stop looking down, you have alot to offer a woman. Just don't give up, the right girl will come along. I know i put up with alot of asshole, before finding a good guy. (Now I've been seperated from my ex -the bad guy. For 6 mos. and I still think of him. Not in a good way... Eventually you will get over it.) Take your times
There is a right to hate drugs, you're a grounded guy with goals, don't let her affect your out-come.
You will get over her I promise, just take it a day at a time.
2007-07-02 06:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U guys obviously didn't break up on good terms and it prolly feels kinda unresolved for u. Just let it go and keep yourself busy. Go out and meet some new ppl and have fun. U def. don't wanna go back to someone like that tho. In time, u will realize u made a big mistake gowen out with her in the first place.
2007-07-02 13:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is it possible that you and this ex girlfriend had a lot of sex!? Sex makes things a lot more diffucult. I think you should move on though... Only because smart loving people who want to start a family shouldn't do it with druggies!
2007-07-02 13:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that you either have abandonment issues or low self esteem. That is probably why. It is impossible to diagnose someone over Y!A, though, so I recommend that you talk to your doctor and get referred to a therapist. Maybe they can teach you to treat yourself with respect and hang out with more appropriate people. Good luck!
2007-07-02 13:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't choose who they love, it just happens. Beyond your control. At times, I think that when you love someone, it's because of the influential effect that person has on one's soul, regardless if you like it or not
2007-07-02 13:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Doll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, the "i'm bad" image has always been kind of hot. but i think you know what is best for you. meet someone new who thinks and acts like you do. You'll be happier in the long run.
2007-07-02 13:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by Moneypenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love her, or the person you wish she was? My guess is that you are infatuated with your idea of who you want her to be, and that person doesn't exist.
Move on...why waste time on a fantasy? This life is too short.
2007-07-02 13:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your in love if you still think about her even though shes the way she is you love that girl try talking to her and get her help to solve her problems because you are in love
2007-07-02 13:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by nisha10mabry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It;s that bad girl image. We are all attracted to the things that are bad for us.
2007-07-02 13:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. She is a psycho and pure trouble.
2007-07-02 13:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by Moondog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋