Not being sexually active till well into a relationship (3 month+)
my question is if you truly like a woman for all her other qualities do you think this would scare you off or not be that large of an issue? I am not talking about waiting for marriage but waiting for a relationship that seems to have the possiblity of long term or until you feel secure in that relationship. Guys, would you wait if she was great?
2007-07-02 06:01:34 · 18 answers · asked by horsedance5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to sound like the late Johnny Cochrane...
If she was great!
I would wait!
I respect a woman that doesn't treat sex as a dating activity but as a tool to get closer to someone they have feelings for.
2007-07-02 06:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last gf was 14 and i was 18. I was going to wait til she was 18 before i did anything sexually to her. I wasnt in it for the sex. She was really cool and i loved her. So yes i would wait a million years as long as she had a good qualities.
2007-07-02 13:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by blackmarket_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a bad lookiing guy and i think that if a girl waited liek 6 months no matter that i said.. i would respect her move.. ++ the relationship would last longer because you get to know the person and its not all about the sex.
2007-07-02 13:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by kazapim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you`re assuming that the decision is totally up to you and you alone. In case it slipped your notice it`s another human being that you`re going out with, not a rubber doll. She may want to wait for a very long time, mightn`t she ?. What then macho man ?. Will it be Dame wrist and her five little daughters ?.
2007-07-02 13:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Hondaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was great and the man didnt have the mind of a child, shouldnt be a problem to wait. but most of the time women now a days will be the one to give in, especially when it come to a relationship.
2007-07-02 13:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Navid G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can wait for either marriage or a really serious relationship. I'd have no complaints personally. I'd definitely wait. It isn't sex that makes the relationship, as sex can only take you so far.
2007-07-02 13:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, any guy would wait for a girl he loves. be careful for the players though... the thing is if you get one of these types they'll wait and act loving for as long as it takes i've known guys to wait 6 months. then after the have sex with you, they'll get rid of you ASAP.
2007-07-02 13:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by thechronic1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl needs to be out of there if the guy can not wait until she is comfortable.
2007-07-02 13:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any *** who says no should evaluate their lives. that's perfectly fine especially if you are young. older folks really don't wait all that long. there are fewer games to be played by men when they get older. so, yes make a guy wait. anything worth having is worth waiting for.
2007-07-02 13:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting that long is the true indication of if the guy really loves you or not.
2007-07-02 13:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋