guys------what are qualities you look for...?

Question

-i want to know looks wise, and how they rate in your book

-i want to know personality wise, and how it rates in your book

-other qualities you look for in a woman

give me details, not just hot, big boobs....please tell me what you are looking for and what qualities in a woman what ever they may be you are willing to look over. such as ditzy, or chubby, or small boobs, give me your examples, more than what i have given already, because if i wanted to know my opinion i wouldnt be asking this question.

i appreciate your honesty and your opinions

Answer 1

I want her to smile and be friendly. Most of all, I want her to be real and comfortable with herself, no matter how she looks. Neatness counts, big time. I want her dressing nice, but not expensive. Looks only attract, they don't keep. Look as nice as you can, but don't over do it, or worry about it. Curves are always nice, but all women have curves.

Answer 2

Firstly with looks. I don't believe it's shallow to want someone attractive. You need to be physically attracted to you spouse when married, so why not when you are dating? Just so long as they have a brain with it.

I personally am what i call a butt guy. I like a girl to have a nice butt, a bit bigger and more round. The term "child bearing hips" goes along way into helping this. Her breast size doesn't matter to me, so long as she has something.

Ditzy is a bid no no for me, but clumbsy is a turn on. The idea that a girl can be clumbsy and not a robot waking around for guys to watch is way hotter. The idea that she might trip when you are walking and your arm around her and brace her up. Basically, the idea that she needs you.

I like her shorter than me. Having her look up to me, I down to her, enhances the animal experience, the GUARDIAN - PROVIDER in a man. You are protecting her, and that is what make a man truly happy... Being a man.

Answer 3

Looks- 7/10-possibly a 6
Personality- carefree, outgoing, smart, funny, ADVENTUROUS!!!!
-Big boobs are a turn-off
-Ditzy is annoying.
Simply i like a cute girl who is smart but at the same time funny. She likes to try new things. And she will except me for who i am. If u know a girl like this please tell me cause i've been looking really hard and have made no progress. Im 19 so she can be 17-21.

Answer 4

The physicality of what I can be attracted to has been so varied that attempting to pick a category is next to impossible - I have seen women of every shape, size, and hue that, while I can state what I prefer, to say that I 'look for' would be a lie.

Personality wise - Brains - not in the zombie way, but smart women are incredibly attractive. Humor, especially absurdest humor. Socially liberal. Someone who's comfortable in their own skin. Someone who has friends & a life of her own.... Meh, the list could go on, but that's good enough.

Answer 5

-Looks: I look for somebody who is cute, but not necessarily "hot." To me, the girls that put on lots of make up, always do their hair, wear sexy clothes, etc. screams that they just want sex. It's still very possible for a girl to be cute without going all out. As a whole, looks are important, but not the deciding factor.

-Personality: Personality is the MOST IMPORTANT part of a girl to me. If I'm going to be in a relationship with a girl, I've gotta be able to get along with her. If she appreciates my sense of humor, my personality, etc. then in my opinion that makes for a successful relationshp. If it comes down to two cute girls that I have to choose between, I'm choosing the one with the personality that more closely matches mine.

-Other Qualities: Anything else is icing on the cake. Personally, I don't like super-skinny girls. I like to have something besides skin & bones to put my arms around. I think boobs are over-rated. The last three girls I've dated have been C & B cups, but personally the B's were my favorite. Enough to be a handful, but not enough that they're gonna sag terribly later in life. Hair doesn't make a difference to me.

Those are my thoughts! Hope they help ya out!

Answer 6

The number one quality that a girl can have is... (drum roll)... RADIANCE (Passion+Hapiness in equal, large amounts)!

For most guys this absolutely trumps everything else, including looks. Hands down. In fact, guys will come (no pun intended) because of good looks and the prospect of sex, but radiance is what makes them stay. Even confidence, intelligence, assertiveness, and other undoubtedly positive and desirable qualities to have are no match for radiance, and are indeed almost worthless without this key ingredient.

In fact I will relate a true story: This super model was part of one of my social circles for a while and one day she brought a friend along. My first thought was "Damn, couldn't she have brought some of her HOT friends" which should sum up nicely my opinion of her looks (at THAT time!). As soon as that girl however opened her mouth I was forced to eat my words. We talked all night, briefly hooked up (if it was up to me it would have gone further) and she is still one of my top friends I see and talk to very often.

As for looks, don't read female beauty magazines!!! (which from what I hear print agenda-laden lies even when supposedly printing "authentic" opinions from guys!) Guys DO NOT find the skinny supermodel type attractive, that bull is just competition among girls for social status for which guys couldn't care less. Guys actually are not THAT selective about sex (relationships=different matter!) which in retrospect should be obvious. They will only fake selectiveness in order to get to a woman's pants. (In fact I do so, too! :-) Anyone who is at least a "7" should not worry about attractiveness and 70-80% of women 18-30 fall in this category. Only for the remainder would I recommend any sort of beauty-enchancing surgery.

As for types, the ideal type for each guy varies wildly. (Yes, the bell curve is centered around the "porn-star" type but the "spread" is pretty wide, so to speak). Watch some porn and you'll see girls of all colors, shapes and sizes, all physically attractive to at least a significant subset of guys, otherwise the thing would not sell. Guys will typically go for anything from A to DD, from skinny but-NOT-concentration-camp-like supermodel type to the chubby-but-NOT-obese girl with large breasts. (Remember, it's not the built, it's the hip-to-waist ratio!) So, if you're in this range you're fine. Yes, not everyone will like your looks, but a good subset of guys will, and as you may remember, that is far from the ultimate trump card.

Answer 7

Someone that is goal-oriented, that knows what she wants. Doesn't try to be like everyone else. Good personality. I prefer to have a beautiful slim, petite woman. Ditsy is a turnoff. Someone that thinks things through - thinks about the consequences. Someone that is truthful, faithful, understanding, humorous, patient.

Answer 8

it fairly is a trick question. There are ladies that have issues i seek for. that's not the difficulty. the difficulty is all the different BS you could desire to handle. So i assume the respond may be a woman who has greater stable characteristics then undesirable ones.

Answer 9

hmmm...ideal? 5'9" or 5'10". abs, toned muscular legs, short hair, brown eyes, very pretty. 36c. big toned butt. 70% looks. personality: comfortable in own skin, down to earth, funny, intelligent, and very outgoing. 30% personality

Answer 10

commitment,monogamy,honesty....these quallitys are all to rare....ive given up looking for this fantasy woman!