i caught my girlfriend in bed with my older brother?

Question

i feel cheated on and i cant trust my brother and my girlfriend is no more

Answer 1

aw im so sorry you deserve much better than that you should let them have each other give it time to get over your gf then go and find yourself someone who really deserves your love!! take care xx

Answer 2

Gosh!!! Obviously the girlfriend has to go. She did it with your brother, and if you keep her, who knows who she'll do it with next.
As for your brother, yeah, that was really bad. But, you can't choose your family. He must be very selfish to have done such a thing, even if he probably thought that she was not a nice person for you, that you'd not stay with her, whatever his reasons were. There are definitely other ways to communicate with you and make his point.
Obviously, he's not to be trusted.
However, blood is supposed to be thicker than water, so, take some time to forgive if you can, even if you might not forget.
She definitely was not worthy of you. xxx

Answer 3

That is wrong. Your girlfriend is filthy that i just really discusting and i don't even want to get started about your brother. I mean that your brother your flesh and blood and he slept with your girlfried? I could never trust any of them ever again. Get rid of the girlfriend she is no good but you need to have a serious word with you brother. I personally could never trust him again and would probably not talk to him for a while as he is your brother and knows better. He should have said no if he really cares about you.

Some people are just selfish and can't stop themself and you can never trust leaving your girlfriend around them.

Sorry to hear that and best of luck with everything.

Answer 4

Your brother is just being a man. He might not did the right thing here but he is your brother over everything else. You need to tell him how pissed off you are and makes sure he doesn't do it again without let you know what's going down. You weren't married to the girl and she showed her true colors. If it wasn't your brother it would have been someone else and you wouldn't have found out honestly. It's ok to be pissed but put things in perspective. Don't let some random tramp ruin your family relations. On the same note put your brother in his place even if you have to punch him out or get your but kicked in the process.

Answer 5

That's a hard one....that kind of trust is almost impossible to get back. Give your brother some time to think about what he has done and when you are ready you can sit down and talk about it. As far as the girl goes....turn that hoe loose lol. Once a cheat always a cheat.

Answer 6

I am so sorry to have heard that. Having your girlfriend cheat on you is horrible, but with your own brother that is even worse. Confront both of them. She was not worth it, forget about her. There are nice girls out there. About your brother, tell him how he hurt you. That being your brother, you never expect him to give you such a low blow. Tell him how disappointed you are in him. Again I am so sorry about what you had to go through. Hope it is going to turn out alright for you. Forget about those two cheaters, just go on with your life. That is the best thing you can ever do. Take care.

Answer 7

few ways to look at this

1 - you cannot trust your girlfriend - why do you still call her a girlfriend - you need to stick an "ex" in front of that.

2 - did your brother know what she was like and was trying to prove a point and things got out of hand - I would listen to his explanation over hers as blood is thicker than water.!

3 - whatever you do - dont let her make excuses - once a cheat - always a cheat - you wont ever trust her again.

try to pick yourself up from it - I know its easier said than done - but if you dont you'll just make yourself worse.

good luck

ps - dont judge other girls based on what this one has done to you x

Answer 8

What's your question? And who do you think is to blame for your choice of girl friend? I'll bet your brother saw it as a roll in the hay and the girl never had a name. You can't find another brother, but you can find another girl friend. Don't break up with your brother, talk about the event. He may tell you something you didn't know.

Answer 9

ohhhhhh that totally sucks. I hope you dumped her. But you should talk to your brother and let him know how you feel and tell him how wronged you were. I hope you will eventually trust your brother again because he is the only family you will have when your much older eventhough it will take some time for you wounds will heal.

Answer 10

Awww mate, im really sorry, you have no reason to trust them. Thats shockin. You should have talks with your brother if you want to try to work things out, as far as your girlfriend is concerned, once a cheater always a cheater. good luck

Answer 11

ok, first of all - how fkd up is that?! brother my ***! ok, beyond that, you can't just jump back into the same ol relationship you had with your bro. Give yourself some space from him and let him come to you - he needs to be man enough to talk to you. Once you're ready, communication with him is next; find out what his problem is. There's something deeper than that; he's missing something from his life or he is jealous of you or WHATEVER it is. Also, is he going to continue seeing that female? anyway, i'm sorry you had to go through that. I'll send my girls to go jack up her car if you want?