he is my dad's friends son.
i met him at a new years party, when i saw him i wanted to melt.
he was gorgeous. and nice.
that night he left after the big count down to go to a party in which he invited me to go to.
i said no, since i just melt him.
after that i messaged him on the computer and got his number and we started texting each other
we became REALLY close. and i started to have feelings for him.
but i dont think it was mutaual.
one week after we met my and his family went to dinner.
that night we all went back to my house and me and him hung out.
that night we kissed for the first time.
and from them on everytime i saw him we kissed.
but i started to get the feeling that he was using me.
then i came to find out he hookied up with alot of the ppl i know!
he seemed like a flirt.
now we hang out every so often, and we act like good friends.
but i have one problem.
i fell in love with him.
now i don't know what to do?
should i tell him?
or leave him alone?
2007-07-02 03:22:21 · 18 answers · asked by go girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, your heart is going to be steamrolled and driven over by monster trucks in this relationship!
He knows he's got you hooked real bad and he's probably just using you.
Test him, see if he'll commit to you. If not??? Then dump his sorry *** and warn your friends about him too.
2007-07-02 03:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love or lust and from who to whom?
and for that what to you is the diffrence between love and lust?
be careful between them is a diffrence and with love there is space for lust to be there (in fact a lil lust seems to go a long way in relationships).
If you cant divide the two then you will not see, and cant be told.
Personally because of your decription of him, presuming you ahve a good self value/self esteem and wish to keep it that way - no dont tell him, in fact walk away from him till you have sorted your emotions out and moved on. he dont sound like the lady respectin type. Is ti lust you feel for him? well since I consider love to be a 2 way thing, and that aint there, you aint got love goin on - its lust you have for him. lust perhaps foro something more, sexual lust or whatever - but its lust. And its lust he has for you, and for afew others too.
plus this has some serious potential to complicated and messy for you, him you friends and you father perhaps. take care and time considering you options before choosing.
End of the day tho, what do you want here? that will give you a better answer than I.
2007-07-02 04:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely just feeling feelings we have all felt about some one from time to time, here's the thing, if you know he has been with people you know then that should stop you right there, if he seems like he is using you and you are feeling that then you should go with your gut instinct and just leave him alone and start dating and looking for some one else.
2007-07-02 03:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not love, it is infatuation and maybe a Little lust. do not tell him you are in love with him. if you like him tell him, if you want to be more than friends tell him, but you have already said he is a player basically - is this the kinda guy you want to have for a bf? and if you do date and it does nt work out, every time your fathers are together he will be around. think about that
2007-07-02 03:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pursue him. He's a flirt, trying to get every girl he can, and counts on you to be there when no one else is only. It's obvious that he is the "most popular" type in the yearbook and knows he can get what he wants when he wants.
2007-07-02 03:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love with him. you are in lust with him. you said that he was goodlooking and nice. everyone is nice when you see them for the first time. you did not even describe him as intelligent, helpful, nurturing, or funny. you just were blind for his physicality. you must be a nice girl, but you are blind by his physicality.
plus, you said he flirted with other girls. what makes you think that he is going to love you? yeah, you can still be friends with him, but if he wanted to be more than friends, he would have told you.
but if you want to tell him......tell him.
2007-07-02 03:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by secret151990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is good, but only when it's mutual. Love, mutual love is best. Which do you want? And yes, he is using you.
2007-07-02 03:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love honey, just be friends with him.
2007-07-02 03:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may seem like it but you barely know him..it can't be love. Your crushing....there will be other boys...
2007-07-02 03:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust
2007-07-02 05:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋