I have never really been in love. I probably thought I was, but when me and my ex boyfriend broke up, I didnt cry at all, and I would be over it pretty soon (I was with him for 2 years!). I have been dating this new guy for a while (about 7 months) and wow! I have never felt this way before. He is absolutley wonderful, and is great to me. I would have feelings for my ex, but with my new boyfriend, these feelings are different. How do I know it's real?
2007-07-02 01:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Puerto Pan Mami 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been in love and let me tell you, when you are, you know it. you can't think about anyone else in a romantic way cause that person is IT for you. you don't care what kind of job they have, how much money they have, what kind of education or family they have, who their friends are, nothing. when you love someone you love them for who they are, not what they have or don't have or anything like that. and you just want to be with that person more than anyone else. also all your inhibitions are gone cause you are with the person you love so there is nothing to hide or be embarassed about because you feel safe. man I hope that's how you feel cause it's frickin' awesome.
2007-07-02 02:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by whateva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that it is real when you can not go for longer than a few minutes without thinking about that other person. Wondering what that person is doing and if that person is thinking about you. When the sound of his voice is all you need to make your day better. You know that it is real when you want him beside you in bed every night and you want to wake up next to him every morning. You have that feeling that he makes you whole and complete.You will know it, just listen to your heart.
2007-07-02 02:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Gwen S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just know..I know thats the answer that most people give but let me tell you how I feel..My relationship right now is real love.We plan to wed next year.Love is patient,kind,Not selfish,and full of trust.You have to listen to your heart...What does it tell you.Is this the guy that you feel is half your soul in another body or is it someone to have fun and just be with at the moment?
2007-07-02 02:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by faithwalker_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's real if there's a nice give and take,
respect, good communication, and
a capacity for friendship, too, not just hot hot hot,
which is great, but if there's a lack of communication
and friendship too, it usually doesn't stand the test of time.
And unfortunately it takes time to see if it's durable.
2007-07-02 02:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by topink 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is, follow your heart, n u wont regret it =]
I was with my 1st boyfriend for 3years. n we broke up last february cuz i have no feelings for him anymore. I love him as a friend anyway. Now im single. I didnt fall for a guy that easy though.
Good luck hun!
2007-07-02 02:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sadly enough sometimes it is all in our heads, we are imagining things we want to be true. But YOU are the only one who can determine if it's true or not, the way you feel, how you are with your partner. The better it makes you feel the truer it probably is.
2007-07-02 02:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mona O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know your self more than any body else,your heart pounding for him,you be live it he is right person,give chance to your self with out DOUBT.if you don't give chance and time how you know.do some thing he don't like it,and wait for react.how he respond?nice gentle way or angry and rude way.you get your answer.every body like right and good thing but when some one handle wrong and dis like thing in right and proper manners,that's very good about person.
2007-07-02 02:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Smita P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you imagain hes lieing by you when you sleep..When you miss the sound of his voice the smell of his colone.. When you feel increidble just to be with him
2007-07-02 02:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't care if there is anything wrong with his appearence because his kindness and devotion for you is all you could ask for, then you are in love with him.
2007-07-02 02:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll know it's real. You won't stop thinking about her. You won't stop talking about her. You won't leave her alone. YOU"LL KNOW.
2007-07-02 02:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by dl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋