I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months. At first the chemistry got us by , but he shows no inclination towards pleasuring me and I have not had an orgasm with him. I do not know how to address this with him. He also has a small penis about which he is obviously sensitive. Any advice will be gratefully received. . . .
2007-07-02 01:57:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't tell him that his ugh hugh is small! Just tell what you like and tell him that you need to have things you like during the sexual experience also....
2007-07-02 02:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should say, "Hey dude, you're not hitting my spot". Next step is to guide him. Guys don't know how we feel so you must tell him what feels good and what doesn't. There are other ways for him to give pleasure to you, like oral.
2007-07-02 02:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to tell him, there is no point in having a relationship is you can not be open about how you feel. Besides, big ones are not the best, it's the way you make use of it that counts.
2007-07-02 02:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mona O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to tell him he's not hitting the spot, just tell him how to. Guide him, tell him what you want. If that don't work ask him if you 2 can use a toy. Good luck!!!
2007-07-02 02:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by CNJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a B.O.B.
Battery Operated Boyfriend
2007-07-02 04:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by betmexxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, that sounds pretty bad. You love someone but you are not compatible in bed?
Well, bluntly it's either look for a new boyfriend, (and dump him), or keep him if you love him, but tell him honestly that you "want more", and if you can't get it from him, naturally you will have to look elsewhere for it, with or without him.... See what he says to that... :) Maybe he's hip to it... Most guys are if you are honest and straightforward about it, and insist on it.
2007-07-02 02:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good lovers are almost always taught by other good lovers. Show him how you want it and where you want it. If he doesn't improve or show interest move on. You won't ever be happy if he doesn't satisfy you.
2007-07-02 02:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Junebaby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grab his hand and put the finger on the spot~~
2007-07-02 02:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a man with a tool, not a boy with no tool.
2007-07-02 02:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um well if he is small then he might not be able to reach your spot but you could trya nd show him where it is and see if he can get it.
2007-07-02 03:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by brandy0084 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋