Would a guy marry or fall in love with a girl who has slept with many guys in the past, but she regrets it now and changes herself?
2007-07-02 01:53:29 · 25 answers · asked by rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course, everyone deserves a chance at love. The past is the past. If she slept around for self-destructive reasons but has healed the underlying cause, there is no reason she cant have a healthy relationship now.
2007-07-02 01:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you have to know that the past stays the past but other will tell you that someones past defines that person.Every body makes mistakes in their life , who doesn't .Look at the former president of the United States he made a mistake and still . In life there is always a person for each person what i mean by that, is that you will find the right person for you .There will be someone waiting for you no matter what happened in your past ,he want judge you he will love you Cherish you and make his life with you. But of course other will be talking but it want matter to him,because you have to know that in life you will find stupid people and the only things there good at is putting their nose in people stuff but who cares after all it's your life.Anyways all this to tell you that yes that a guy will marry a girl who has slept with many guys but it will not be easy to find because nowadays most guys are to close minded but it's way far from being impossible there is someone out there waiting for that girl and a someone that she will also love.After all God is not selfish. Good luck and let me know how things worked for you .
2007-07-02 02:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tinanfi 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past. Focus on the present, your current relationship, work together on that and go forward.
If your guy is too hung up on what happened before the two of you were together, then maybe he is not the "one". He should be thinking of the who you are now and what you will be in the future with each other.
2007-07-02 01:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by katz_meowz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy. Usually guys have just as many skeletons in their closet. Now getting one another to be honest about their "number" is another story. What it boils down to is if you trust them AFTER knowing how many people they have been with. Another thing is, if we want to admit it or not, we want to know how we compare to everyone else. If you have slept with ten people, but make us believe we are the best ever... you probably won't get too many complaints.
2007-07-02 02:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? How many people over the age of 18 are virgins anymore? Especially in my age group (30-40). Usually by then we have been in multiple relationships and had sex with them all.
If I met a woman in her 30's and still a virgin, I would almost run the other way. What is she? A religious freak?
2007-07-02 02:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it this way...There is a culture in college that sooner or later, you are gonna drink...and then eventually you are gonna have too much...and then you are gonna be around some guy/girl at a party when you do drink too much...and well, I think you can figure out what usually happens from there...Anyone who has been to college knows EXACTLY what I am talking about...Most people who have been to college have stories in the closet...You are not the only one...Don't worry...
2007-07-02 02:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, some guys aren't comfortable with a girl who's been around the block and back. The same thing applies to the reversed situation. It truly depends on the person.
2007-07-02 01:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is concerned about that it, is because he is not good in bed and does not want to be compared to other men, so you don't want him.
I have been proposed to several times, by some wonderful men. Your problem would not be that you slept with several men, your problem would be regreting it. Regret is a very unattractive quality.
2007-07-02 02:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I would definitely consider it. We all make mistakes in life or make wrong decisions and act in ways we regret later. Obviously you are willing to admit that you did wrong before and that is the first step in forgiveness and moving forward. Don't be so hard on yourself. Good Luck
2007-07-02 01:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by Cisco Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would the guy know how many men his fiancee has slept with in the past?
Good heavens, you don't actually tell your bf this do you?
2007-07-02 01:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋