He told me that i'm only his 2ndry Soul Mate and that they have a connection far deeper than we ever could. We have been together of 10 years and we have 3 really young children who i'm left to look after on my own now. He tells me they both spend their evenings talking to dead people, spirit guids, higher powers & checking past live connections. I, along with all my family & friends, are in a state of shock - not just at his leaving but also his reasoning. Has anyone been through something similar or know someone one who has? Has he completely been brainwashed and lost his mind or is there some greater picture I'm just not getting?
2007-07-02 01:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by Krisso 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I can only say that he is a fool. You are not to be blamed for what this man has done to you or your family. There could be a greater picture (you will most likely find someone who really loves you and is not consumed by such stupidity and immorality) and I would also make the claim that he has been brainwashed by lies. You deserve far better than what this 'man' could offer you and I view his act with disgust. You are not his secondary soul mate, nor are you his soul mate (at all). Neither is he your soul mate. You loved him and the person that he was but you have a stronger connection with someone who is greater than that 'man' and you will meet him soon. This man will love you for who you are, not for what you bring him. He will treat you like a woman is supposed to be treated (with kindness, compassion, love, security and protection). He will be always kind to you and will never abuse you, your children or your trust. Find this man and forget the 'man' who broke your heart for a lie.
2007-07-02 02:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? That is odd. Because most psychics who are the real thing are a lot more grounded than to steal women's husbands away from them. Well, they are wrapped up in it right now and it is intense. You better believe it. He might come to at some time in the future but who knows? At least make them pay you child support!
They have just connected on a deep level as well as a shallow one, I imagine!
2007-07-02 02:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a man's perspective, I doubt very seriously that they are soul mates. He just wants to have sex with her. He's using the "soul mate" angle as an excuse. You may live with a person 20 years before you realize they are your soul mate. But I guarantee you it isn't as short as 3 weeks. Grieve, recover, take all of his money, and raise your children knowing that you're doing the best you can.
2007-07-02 01:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: child support.
If he just runs off on a whim like that, he's not worthy to be your husband and the father of your children. It must be hellishly hard to be a single mother of three, but all I can say is try to organise your life, take good care of the little ones - and move on. Forget the a55hole. But make him pay for it.
2007-07-02 04:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ymmo the Heathen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your soon to be ex-husband is a moron. He's just looking for an excuse to run off with a loose floosie that has buffaloed him with her BS psychic garbage.
Divorce his sorry rear end, take him for everything that you can. His new "honey" will soon want to move on with a more exciting bozo with more money and leave him in the dirt where he belongs.
Do Not take him back. Raise your kids to be great kids who are proud of the stand their courageous mother made against pure stupidity.
Have a real grateful day.
2007-07-02 01:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. I haven't been through a situation very similar, but my father (who was a leader in our church) ran out after 20 years of marriage for a woman he had just met. It was a midlife crisis, no doubt.
What you have may just be a midlife crisis, but it would be something deeper like brainwashing, like you're thinking. One way or another I'm sorry to hear that and my heart goes out to you. Stay strong, my thoughts are with you and your children.
2007-07-02 01:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who abandons his children is not a man at all, in my view. That he has broken his oath of fidelity is no small matter, either.
Don't let emotion cloud your judgment. Now more than ever your children need you to be strong. Your first obligation is to them. Secure your legal rights to child support... and move on.
2007-07-02 02:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mike H. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry that you married a wacko.
I am even more sorry that you have children. If it wasn't for that I would tell you this was a good thing. But there is nothing good about kids not having a father.
2007-07-02 01:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely brainwashed, yup.
I'd say good riddance. I'd take him for all you can get, and I wish you luck with that. Find yourself an adult to raise your children with.
2007-07-02 01:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This psychic is a control freak and your hubby is a gullible idiot. Let him go, they deserve each other.
2007-07-02 01:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ophelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋