my brother in law introdused me to one of his friend.i found him very atractive but he doesn't talk a lot he is kind of shy so i invited him to a diner in a restaurent it turns out there was a restaurent at his hotel so we decided to eat there and after diner he invited me to his room he kissed me in the room but not right away maybe 2 hours later and then we made love that night and the night after.and now he went back to his country wich is an hour flyt from were i live and since he left he didn't call me i'm the one who called him and every time i call him he says he will call me back but he never call.and i'm realy in love with the guy should i tell him that i love him that i some time can't get some sleep because i think about him?
2007-07-02 01:14:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I doubt if your in love. Maybe your in lust. No I would not tell him you love him. He undoubtedly used you and doesn't want to contact you any more. I'm not trying to be mean but you should move on. He took advantage of you. Although I think you let yourself be taken advantage of. What exactly do you know about this guy? How much time did you really spend with him? Let him go and find another guy. Maybe wait a while before you make love to him also. Good Luck
2007-07-02 01:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is good to let the males have the lead, and this will tell you where you are going and how he feels. you have called him, now let him call you, it is hard to stand still when you feel like that about someone, but love is never one sided, it must be returned by the other partner as well, be patient for a little and let him ring you, otherwise it looks like you are doing all the work and putting in max effort and I feel that he should respond fairly quickly if you stop ringing
Goodluck for your future, hope this situation resolves quickly for you
2007-07-02 08:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by ann s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had any real interest, other than the use of your body which you gave away too freely, he'd be calling you. This was a quicky and some local fun in his book. How you can possibly think you're in love with a guy you slept with over a two night period is beyond me.
2007-07-02 08:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by LadyG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him ASAP. The sooner you do so, the better off you'll be. If you don't, then think about what you might have missed out on.
2007-07-02 08:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about him! Move on.
2007-07-02 08:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋