ive been a borderline personality sufferer since 15 im 30 now.
i also have a petty criminal record to...i would really like to fullfill my ambition of emigration to canada or australia someday, but i keep getting told from people i wont be able to because of my background and my history, i get very depressed and in low moods because of this, and i feel if i discover that i cannot move away, emigrate, i will do myself in, because i hate it here in england, and desperatley wanna work towards leaving....im waiting for therapy for my disorder, but i dont wanna think i can never leave britain and that im trapped here because of mistakes ive made in my past and my mental health history, thats condemnation, im willing to work with my problems with therapy, but i need to know that theres hope for me,that i could move out & far away if i choose..i dont wanna be told i cant go where i wanna go, when im a reforming character,or else my time on earth is a short one.does anyone se any hope for me?
2007-07-01 22:19:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i dont aggree with you angel, i want to leave here perminantly
2007-07-01 23:23:55 · update #1
Problem with Canada and Australia, and also the USA, is that unless you are an asylum seeker (all those countries have a healthy admittance policy there), or are a worker in a field they require skills in then you have little chance of going. I am an experienced Civil Servant with no criminal record, and no medical issues, and there's little chance I'd ever get to emigrate to America or Australia. So sorry and all, but you HAVE to accept that that isn't going to happen for you.
As people have mentioned, you have the whole of mainland Europe to choose from without any restrictions on movements.
What exactly is it that you hate about Britain? I think you'd find at least as many issues and problems with living in any of the countries you mention.
2007-07-01 22:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I know if you have been sectioned that stays on your record as a permanent blot and effects your visa applications.... but you need to think about why you want to emigrate so badly? It seems like you want to run away because you think you will leave the crap behind you... which isn't how it is.
There isn't anything stopping you having a fresh start here, relocated to another part of UK if you want a move... or try Europe. But really you need to look inside yourself and find out what it is you are trying to run away from. If you resolve the under lying issues, I am sure you will feel happier and more settle here... if you had a great job, with a sense of purpose, and good pay you'd be able to go off on some kick-a**e holidays!!!
2007-07-01 23:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hi - the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence because thats where all the cr*p gets dumped! Unfortunately the truth is that you will not ever be happy (not even in paradise) until you sort your own life out and try and deal with the problems. Moving from UK is pretty easy if you stay in the EU, why not try that? My son felt very similar to you and his life has changed dramatically just by changing the town. People in the UK are very different from town to town - perhaps try that? Anyway keep your chin up and rather try and deal with the cause :-) Good luck.
2007-07-02 00:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't see that Australia or Canada are really any better place to live than England, maybe that is not the answer. Maybe you just need to find somewhere in the UK that you would like to live, there are some very nice places around. what is it about England that you feel is so terrible?
If you can't go to Australia you can always go to another european country because we are free to move around europe.
2007-07-01 22:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen M 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Canada and Australia are out if you have a criminal record but there are plenty of other places in the world you could go. Have you tried moving to a different part of the country?
2007-07-01 22:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by coffee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-28 21:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by geissel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when someone wants to go to the other side of the fence because it looks greener finds out how much of their own side of the fence they missed. If you sit around hating here what makes you think you wont do the same there?
2007-07-01 22:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you dont start thinking positive your going to go head first into a bottom less pit ..Believe me ive been there its not fun..Therapy and pills show you the way> if you dont start to help yourself. It will get worse..sorry if this not the answer you wanted.But i see you saying the same things everyday. your friends are here to help you We believe in you. Now its your turn,,Yes i have Hope for you
2007-07-02 17:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start thinking in a hopeful direction; encourage yourself to looking forward to a brighter future life, u oughtn't be limited by your background and history!
2007-07-02 00:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have restrictions. Who told you life would be fair, lied. We make do with what we have. Get a bible and read it. God has a plan, you can reject it. He does not make you do anything. You might change your outlook on life don't dwell on you problems but at your advantages.
2007-07-02 02:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋