coming out of the closet?

Question

im not gay but im curious to know how you would react if your partner came out and said they no longer loved you the same way because they just admitted that they preferred love from your opposite sex? in other words your bf liking boys and your gf liking girls. i dont know what ill do to be honest i think im going to choke me a bytch

people im not in this situation but im just curious to know what you would do if you were in that position. and i was joking about the choking thing

Answer 1

I wouldn't have a problem with her coming out of the closet, but to say she no longer loves me is another thing.

Answer 2

Hi, I don't think choking her will change her. She was being honest with you and it does hurt to hear she likes women over men. Just walk away and leave it at that. Show her you are a good person and will let here go.
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Answer 3

great you aren't choking well choke on this. If i was married and the guy tld me he was gay i would say ok now what? i am not against them and stuff and i realize they have different things then we feel. so there is no changing someone at that point but it wold have been nice to say before the wedding but i am very big liberal

Answer 4

Just be glad that she did not marry you, then leave you for someone else. She can not help it if she is a lesbian. Many guys and girls try to have straight relationships before they realize that they have feelings for the same sex.

Let it go. there is nothing that you can do to change what she is feeling.

Answer 5

oddly enough i have been in a similar situation. when i was in high school, i dated this guy who was sensitive and very expressive. many years later, i found he was gay. i was a little astonished at first. by that time i was over him, so i could embrace him as being gay.