I am in love with a married man and I want to make love with him, and I would leave my husband any day for this man. My husband is only good for cash flow, but the man I love is caring, sweet and beautiful. Is it ok to cheat if I truly don't love my husband?
2007-07-01 19:54:45 · 53 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You made a commitment to him. Talk to him about it and get a divorce. If the other guy really loves you, he would get a divorce too. Just remember, what you are doing is wrong... Watch your back.
2007-07-01 19:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cheezwizzle 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This question is wrong on so many levels. Yes its wrong to cheat on your husband no matter what your reasons are. If you have to ask, you already know the answer. Even though you're happy with your money situation being married to him, if you don't love him and love that other guy, BOTH of you should do your spouses a favor by just divorcing them rather than breaking their hearts by cheating. You shouldn't be with a man if you don't love him. You must care about him a little though since you haven't cheated on him, yet. Don't string him along. Its not fair to anyone.
2007-07-01 20:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mekana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly don't love your husband, you should divorce him. Its not fair to him. Just cash flow? Why did you marry him to begin with? Why don't you get a job and get your OWN money?
Plus, this other guy is married. Unless he has an open marriage, you're more than likely going to end up alone anyway, which seems best for everyone I would imagine. And I tend to question how he can be a "caring, sweet, wonderful" person if he would cheat on his wife.
*sigh* People like you make me sickened by other women.
2007-07-01 20:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably try to stop being such a gold digger and get some cash flow of your own. obviously cheating isn't ok b/c not only will you be hurting your husband, but you'll also put the married man's relationship in jeopardy. If you don't love your husband you shouldn't be married. and if you love this other guy and he loves you, then he probably shouldn't be married. basically, don't do it. if this guy wants to leave his wife to be with you, then he'll do it. if he doesn't, then he probably doesn't love you and it will be a waste of your time and dignity.
2007-07-01 20:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by user123 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you know the answer to this already. If you had any honor, you would divorce your husband, stop fooling with a married man, and go to a psychiatrist to work out your issues with relationships and your inability to pick good partners.
2007-07-01 20:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by happydog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. first you need to end things with your partner. Put yourself in his shoes. I'm sure you already knew this was wrong and clearly the married man is not going to end his marriage for you or else he would of already so what is the point. It would only degrade yourself further. Treat your partner with dignity and divorce him.
2007-07-01 20:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's never ok to cheat. if you don't love your husband you leave him and then if your 'boyfriend' leaves his wife, then you can sleep with him.
I bet he never leaves his wife. Usually these guys are getting something from their wives and they just want sex with you. It's not love. Besides, you only want your husband's money. Therapy will help you deal with this before you ruin so much for so many.
2007-07-01 19:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by moviegirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i hope you know goldigging GIRLS like you make a terrible name for all the dignified, hard-working women out there. take some responsibility, grow the hell up, and choose one guy or the other. either take care of your own finances and leave your husband so you can have sex with the other guy, or stop seeing your lover. no guy deserves to be put through that situation (especially if all you're doing is taking his money). and if you do decide to cheat, i hope your husband finds out and leaves you. seriously, take some (freaking) responsibility.
2007-07-01 19:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Cliff 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Yea it's fine.. follow your heart woman.
Just leave your husband and get your own cash flow.
Just for moralitys sake...
2007-07-01 20:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by SweetElf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with your husband immediately. Leave the married man alone. If he's not in love with his wife, he should leave her. Then, the two of you can get it on.
2007-07-01 19:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Spyder 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋