like is there a quiz or a list of signs or somthing?
2007-07-01 19:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Relax! You don't really have to define yourself in those terms if you don't want to. You can leave the question open. If someone asks you (which is generally rude, except in special circumstances) you can answer "I don't know yet."
Anyway, the definitions have to do with which people you are attracted to. If you are attracted to men and not to women, you are straight. If you are attracted to women and not to men, you are lesbian. If you are attracted to both men and women, you are bisexual. Then you can assign degrees to it if you want, the way the Kinsey Report did. They put totally straight at zero (editorial comment there?), totally gay at six, and really 50/50 bi at three.
You sound quite young. Probably none of this has gotten sorted out in your head, let alone in your experience, as of yet. Take your time. For the very young, it is typical to go through a phase of "crushes" on people that aren't really sexual because you don't really know much about sex yet.
THERE'S NO HURRY!!!
2007-07-01 19:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No quiz but it sounds like you are curious.
Only way to find out is to get out there and do it! Depending on where you live there usually are places to go or festivals to attend. Check out the web for LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender/transsexual, and queer) events near you. Toronto (Canada) and London (England) just had massive celebrations. Also most universities and colleges have facilities available. Get out there and try it, it is the only way you will know for sure.
Just be.
"All the freaky people make the beauty of the world" -Michael Franti
2007-07-02 02:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Daria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but no. It's just something you have to figure out on your own. Trust me--I questioned it myself for many years. (I am officially straight now.) I got my definite proof after getting a lap dance from a beautiful girl at a strip club, and it just made me uncomfortable.
However, if you do think you are, don't worry. You will have a greater support group than you may realize!
2007-07-02 02:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Esma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how is anyone supposed to answer whether or not you are gay. That is the dumbest question. There is no quiz. If you like women you are gay. If you just don't like men, and think by process of elimination you may be gay, maybe you are asexual.
2007-07-02 02:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jason K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well it is said that women are more open to the thought of being bi or lesbian. Maybe you should try experimenting and see where it takes you. Try to see what sex you notice more when you walking around.
2007-07-02 02:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well even asking this shows that you are somewhat interested in other girls. Chances are, your Bi/Les.
2007-07-02 02:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ghost Opera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open your mind to the possibilities for a second. Here's the test:
(1)Do you want to have intimate relationships with women?
(2)Do you want to have intimate relationships with men?
If yes to #1 and no to #2, you're gay.
If yes to #1 and yes to #2, you're bisexual.
If no to #1 and yes to #2, you're straight.
If no to #1 and no to #2, you're asexual.
If you said yes to one and still only maybe to the other you're bicurious.
2007-07-02 02:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody know yourself better other than yourself.Just don't let other influence what you think.Just explore yourself slowly, don't rush into anything.It will cause more confusion and things might get ugly too.Just be prepared.
Good Luck!
2007-07-02 02:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think only you can know what you are and how do you feel, also i dont thing it´s necessary to label yourself. Maybe you need to try with a woman.
but if you´re interested there is a test called Kinsey test
2007-07-02 02:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u want to have sex with other girls u mite b bi/les...kinda obv on that one
2007-07-02 02:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋