i was dating a guy for a couple months and he just suddenly stopped calling me. about a week ago he told me that he was really stressed worried he was going to lose his house but he wanted to see me. I got a call today and someone told me his website was down and I had not talked to him in a week so i sent him a text asking if he was okay. he never responded so I called him tonite and he told me that he has been drinking and being lazy sleeping till 5 pm but he will call me when he stops drinking as much..I told him not to bother
we were sleeping together too. no protection, only guy I have been with since having a my son
I was so mad afterwards I sent a text saying " I was actually worried about you and you were just being a selfish ***, I am so dissapointed in both of us. serious no hard feelings I just had to get that off my chest"
Is that like pyscho girl?
was that okay? or is he laughing at me
ofcourse he didnt respond
2007-07-01 18:36:18 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Stay away from this guy. Your reaction was warranted because he kind of just dropped out w/o warning, but don't call or text again. He is telling you straight up that he is a mess.
2007-07-01 18:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has sent you many signals that he is not the one for you. It seems that he has some serious things to work out and you should not get involved with him. If his reaction to stress is to drink heavily and sleep until 5pm, what does that say to you? As a mother, you do not need another child. You were justified in texting him, however. Regardless of what he is going through, you two had an intimate relationship and he should have been more forthright with you. Good Luck.
2007-07-02 01:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Kick the guy to the curb before it gets worse! You were fine just trying to reach out to someone you cared about but his drinking was more important then you! You have right to be upset! you are not psycho. Save yourself some heart ache and run while you can!! Life is to darn short to hang around, since you are clearly not on his radar at the moment
2007-07-02 01:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by silkydkkpsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy had his fun with you and just left you hanging..
I reckon you should just leave him for good, how many more sleepless nights are you gonna spend worrying about him?
And no that wasn't phsyco, that was just a worried female doin her thang..
2007-07-02 01:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mmmm... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kelly, I don't see that you did anything wrong. You told him the truth and you needed to get things off your chest. I don't think he will be seeing you anywhere in the future. Believe me you are better off.
poppy1
2007-07-02 01:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by poppy1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think it best to look for other "fish"
especially if you have your son to think about. Elle had a point I don't think I could say it better.
2007-07-02 01:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerk!!!
But at least you let him know... without him thinking you are all over his jock.
2007-07-02 01:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Angie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love sucks, dont it.
2007-07-02 01:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by mle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋