my best friend and me get in a lot of stupid fights. one, the last one, was horrible! she was right too. i just didnt trust her. i knew she had read these 2 other girls diaries, so i was seeing if she was going to read mine. i opened it, put it on the table, told her i was going downstairs for a while, (we were at a camp) and i hid a camera aimed at the diary. she found it and got very mad. i felt so stupid and jerkish! and on top of that, i lied and told her i meant to aim it at the door! (people kept breaking into our room) most of the time she tells me i always try to be right, and i make her seem like the bad person. i told her i dont, but i know i do. the point is, we get in way too many fights. this other one, our last fight, was when we stopped being best friends. see, i really liked these 2 girls as friends that made tina cry. they said sorry, and i knew they were. i told tina i liked them, and i wasnt scared of her anymore. she hung up on me. she said we werent friends. nowwat
2007-07-01 18:33:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Until you GROW UP you will always have friendships like this. You should swallow your pride and go to her and tell her exactly like you feel. If you REALLY want to be friend with her and want it to work-you need to act like it. Show her that you WANT her to be your best friend...don't just say it!
2007-07-01 18:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say, only you have the knowledge it's going to take to realize if this friendship is going to work. Some of the things you mentioned are understandable on your part. I feel you really do have a reason not to trust her. If she had read other girls diaries, why would she not read yours?
I feel she realized you would try to set her up. She probably feels guilty for what she did. This is her defense, to say you don't trust her. If both of you were very close I'm sure she is hurting too with all that has been said and done. People change as they grow older. Both of you may have reached a point where the things you use to tolerate in each other, are getting to be too much now. Life events cause this to happen sometimes. If you feel she is not putting anything into your friendship anymore maybe it would be the best to both go your seperate ways. If you feel that she will get over this and things will smooth over, I would just avoid her for awhile, "unless this is impossible". Treat her nice and if you get tired of her attitude find new friends. Just be yourself and she will have to respect you for who you are. If she don't it will be hard to remain friends.
2007-07-01 19:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a better friend someone that will not read someone else diary and including yours. If you can not trust her well who can you trust as a friend she is supposed to respect your privacy and you hers. If she would have read it what would she have done, she would have told everyone in camp what you had wrote and that is no one business especially hers. You have to give respect to get respect and if she can not respect your as her friend then you need to find someone who will.
2007-07-01 18:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, apparently u aren't best friend. lol
You are so dramatic... and it sounds like most of your other friends are too!!!
If you want to be friends with her again, just admit that you were wrong and give her a good apology.
2007-07-01 18:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Youknow. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because both of u love each other~
:)
2007-07-01 18:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Muffey D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then u guys rn't bf.
2007-07-01 18:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by EvaA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋