2 ALL MARRIED WOMAN ! are husbands understanding , loving after a few years 2 u?

Question

i understand woman they fall inlove in the begining the say this man is fantastic my dream man! ,,,, but reality after a few years is he still fantastic ?, loving ?, understanding ?, treats u like a queen? still? .......... dont tell me anything if ur man & u have been together a few months or a year !!!!!!! tell me the truth if u have been with him for many years and u think u know him!!!!! if u happend 2 be with this man for many years and hes absolutely wonderful !!! i am curious i wanna know if they do exist!!! somewhere in this country we have to have a real good husband , friend a lover !!!!!!! i have a feeling most woman r going to back up their man...........saying ( mines is fantastic , but then he beats her ,cheats on her or dont even have real conversations with her lol , i want to hear a real good man story ! are there any?????? hey can i meet him? take pictures roflmao !?

Answer 1

There are good men out there. The best are Christians.

Answer 2

Sorry I am a man. But I have to give a little input. I have seen time after time when a womans answer would be whatever makes you happy honey or sweety. Stop that.
Me and my wife went thru hell a few years ago and I am thankfull due to the fact when it all worked out we are better then ever. A woman should not be selfish but she should be very clear.
Men look at a womans looks first and that seems to change after marriage. Some men especailly the shallow ones work really hard pouring on the charm when it comes to a beautiful woman. That can't last. it istoo much work. That is why you see the most beautiful women with the most jerks.
I say just be strait up and don't be the doting wife.

Answer 3

Married for 17 years and it is wonderful. He is my best friend and loving and understand and everything else a husband is supposed to be. I wouldn't care to tell you if he was an ***, but I have to be honest in telling you that we have the most wonderful marriage. We argue and disagree, but we also talk through everything. We have date nights and spend time together without the tv, children or telephone. The most important four letter word in marriage, not exactly what you think, but it is important too, but it is TALK! In every aspect of a relationship you have to communicate and if one or the other doesn't like to talk things out or talk about the things they like or dislike, then there are going to be more problems than any person could handle. Oh yea and he is simply the most handsome man in the world. Yea there are good ones out there, but in my opinion, not as good as mine...lol. Don't give up, just know what you want in a relationship and work on finding someone who shares the same things. Good Luck

Answer 4

My hubby and I married on April Fool's Day, several years ago, and since then, we have both changed quite a bit. We are both on our 2nd marriage and I guess so far, things are working out better than our firsts. We were appy newlyweds but were interrupted by suddenly becoming parents(neither one of us thought it could happen to us!) Now we are discovering it is a whole new world!
At least once a month I ask for a divorce for some reason as trifle as he doesn't know how to take out the trash. I cry and scream and accuse him of all kinds of things. Then a few days pass and everything goes back to normal. He seems to think it is my PMS but I secretly just get tired of being around him all the time! I want my own unstinky bathroom first thing in the morning. I want to cook dinner without first having to clean all the dishes. I want to watch a movie other than KungFuSciFiGoofyA- I want to get off and leave him unable to fall asleep!
You did want us to vent, right?
It is give and take-some days more give than take-but on the whole, I guess I would say I still like him.

Answer 5

I met my husband on 7/12/1997 His birthday. I had just moved 300 miles away from a crackhead alcoholic jerk father of my three girls husband. he was weed-whacking for the Housing Authority where I moved to. I was on the phone with a girl that lived behind me across the court yard from me saying what a cute butt this guy had not realizing that he could hear me talking. My divorce became final quickly and we began seeing each other and he used to drive a medical route and eventually I began working there too. My baby used to go to work two and three hours late just to stay with me for a little while longer and was and is still the sweetest, most caring husband/father I could possibly have ever ended up with. His ex's are both psychotic and have both said that he would never be anything positive for me but, I think it was just them and not him. He has proven every single bad thing anyone has ever said about him wrong and can't even imagine how they got the ideas about him. He will always be the first guy to run to a lady- in- distress's aid and is still 1,000,000% loyal and loving to me. My kids tease us because we are constantly saying we love each other and them and our sparks are still there as well as our fireworks at those intimate moment times. YES!!! there are great guys out there, they just have to be found. Usually in the most unexpected places.

Answer 6

Your right about the "Mines Fantastic, but....... story. But to be honest all marriages go through some type of dilemma or another . You have your bad times and then you have your good times, then you have your WOW his fantastic times. I think it just takes time and a lot of effort from both to make it the WOW time. And as you two get older and you realize how much you depend on each other then you knew and you really get to know each others personalities is when you find that WOW IN HIM AND IN YOURSELF. Just takes the time and effort to make it. I've been married for 16.5 years. And I think mine has got better and better each year. His not perfect but then I would probably get bored with perfect.

Answer 7

Yes they do exist, my husband is still the same loving, caring, understanding, fun exciting(in and out of bed).
We have been married for 5 years. This is my second marriage, my first husband was wonderful, I thought until we were married about 2 years and he just turned into an
a**hole. He began abusing me physically, verbally and emotionally, then if that was not enough he began cheating on me with his stupid secretary, (that's the ***** he is married to now). I thought like you did, never again, men are jerks there is not any good man out there that is Worth my time, blah blah, blah. I dated alot after my divorce, and just as I was about to totally give up on finding Mr Right. I met my husband now. He is great. We both are the same people we were when we first met. But it does take work, it takes alot of giving and taking on both parts. It is up to both of us to keep the magic alive. No one said it was going to be easy. But we both are willing to keep it alive. we both have very demanding jobs, we both have children from previous marriages, we have all the stresses work, kids, but we both take time to always make each other feel special. So don't worry Mr. Right does exit. And no you can't meet him, LOL.

Answer 8

my husband and i have been married 41 yrs. on the 23rd july. weve had our ups and down most couples do. we have 3 grown up kids 3 grandchildren and 1 great grandson. my man sits down and prepares a menu for the weeks food, we then go shopping but he is in controll of the food he wants to cook. he does all our cooking and really enjoys doing it, he makes cakes and pies. he always clean the kitchen up after a meal, cleans the sink as well. he always helps around the house with washing and iroining changing the bedding cleaning the bathroom he helps keep the flat spotless. he also does the gardening. i really do believe ive got the perfect husband although he hasnt always been like this, but our relationship is just perfect our love for each other is stronger than ever. he even runs my baths for me, he really is one in a million when they made my man they broke the mould.

Answer 9

my husband is such a totally nice man. people everywhere just think the world of him.
however he is a lousy husband and dad because the opinion of others is more important to my hubby than the opinion of those he lives with. he spends so much time pleasing others that he doesn't have anything left for wife and kids. we live with a stranger who stops in when there is nothing better to do elsewhere.
yes if i weren't the wife i too would probably get the idea that he is just such a nice man. but i am the one he lives with and me and our kids do not come first. the praise and recognition of the church and our community is what my hubby works for.

Answer 10

After 5 years of marriage-my husband still totally rocks my world. He is considerate, caring, very affectionate and there is no doubt in my mind that he loves me with all his being.

He opens car doors for me, he makes sure I am comfortable, he takes me in his arms and dances with me (at home, at the hardware store or anywhere).

He prays with me, he cries with me and he sings me goofy little love songs. He holds my hand no matter where we are.

He is my best friend, a fantastic lover and as much as he loves me, I love him sevenfold. I have been married twice before. One ended in death (my husband was murdered after 3 years) and the second ended in divorce after 20 years.

I am an affectionate giving person by nature and a true romantic. It is so wonderful to find a man that can love me so intensely and still be so secure. And It is wonderful to know that I have the capacity to love another person as much as I love him.

We began dating in February, and in July he asked me to marry him. We got married the following October. The song he picked out for me our first Valentine's Day together and the song we dance to every anniversary is "Can't Help Falling in Love With You" by Elvis Presley.

Answer 11

I have been with my partner for 13 years and we have 3 kids and im only 27 and his 28.
Dont get me wrong his not perfect but the kids and I mean the world to him, and he makes sure that we never go without.
He always tells me he loves me before he goes anywhere or goes to sleep.
Always organisies secret holidays with me and the kids or just us two sometimes.
Id be lost without him.
You wanna know where i found him..............across the street, yep he was the boy next door. Corny I know but its true.