ive ben dating my gf for about 6 months but ive known her for about 4 years.. i know her like the back of my hand... i want to be with her and love her for the rest of my life... should i ask her to marry me... i know she loves me and we have spoken about marriage... what should i do?
2007-07-01 18:10:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im 22 and a BA in computer science... shes the same age but working on her BA in Phy
2007-07-01 19:09:22 · update #1
If you are asking this question then you are not sure. Give it a year or two then see what happens if you still feel the same way then do it.
2007-07-08 16:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by mama de 4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it in the back of your mind. You will know when it's right to ask. Then make your plan. Wait a little bit longer and then do it, if you feel it's right.
Don't worry about sowing oats. Love isn't like oat farming. Your experience might be that you have found a good one. You don't need to engage in a barrage of silly relationships if you've already got what you want.
You probably should have said your ages. There is a difference if you are 18, then if you were more like 35.
2007-07-01 18:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are only 22 years of age... if you are asking us if you should ask her to marry you then you aren't ready. Marriage is supposed to last a lifetime... not if the going gets rough you want out... you are having a hard time deciding if you want to ask her to marry you... what is the harm in waiting until she is done with her schooling... see where you both get jobs... WAIT until you are sure... I am sure it is too late to say...but here goes anyway... wait on the sex.. if you love her why not wait for that special day...
2007-07-09 09:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning what to do I don't think you are really ready yet. Wait a while a get to know her better (you will, everyday I find out I know my husband better and we have been together nearly five years). When you feel comfortable with asking her to marry you, then do it. It sounds like the two of you will create a wonderful marriage someday, but don't rush things.
Best of luck.
2007-07-01 18:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look if you are sure then do it but do it with no regrets or second guess do it with the confidence of love and you will be ok good luck (hint) when you go to ask her make it special something you came up with not anyone elsemake it a fairy tale
2007-07-09 14:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by letty_alfonso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you guy are financially set because the majority of the problems plaguing most marriages is financial difficulty. Also, make sure your done with your education because it become impossible to finish your studies once your married--due to time constraints. There is no rush to get married, you have each for the rest of your life. Good Luck!
2007-07-01 18:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love her and truly want to be with her, then by all means ask her to marry you!! You two have known each other for a long time. If you have the relationship that you say you have, then every thing will work out. Congratulations!!!
2007-07-08 12:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by smithville_oakland_seattle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey, only you know the answer to that question. although you haven't dated for long, it doesn't mean you shouldn't get married. to me, age and experience factor into that. for example, my husband and i got engaged after only 10 months of dating but we were 29 and 30 so we were old enough to know ourselves and were old enough to have had a few serious r'ships. if you're like 20...then i'd say no - don't ask her to marry you. wait and get to know each other more. time is always a good thing. afterall, if you're going to love each other forever, why rush the decision to get married?
2007-07-01 18:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel that strongly about it, you should ask her. Just make it special and a complete surprise...thats the best way to do it....make it very personal, something the 2 of you share together. But I think you should give it a go, especially if you know she feels the same and ya'll have talked about it. Good luck!
2007-07-01 18:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should pray about it....marriage is a huge commitment that should not be taken lightly....It can sometimes be very hard....but you have to be willing to accept her...faults and all....and not try to change her....leave that to God....and the same goes for her.....Put God first in your marriage and you'll be on the right path....it won't be perfect, but nothing is.....
I pray that God shows you what He wants you to do...because ultimately, all that matters is being in His will.....
2007-07-08 16:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Julie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋