past 5yrs i am enjoying the x-dressing i looks so beautifull and sexy than a real woman. i am very happy to have this fitness
now i got married i love my wife somuch. now i wanna convince her to for my x-dressing support. becoz i cannot stay without doing xdressing. it is a part in my life. i do seecretly but really i enjoy it. even some times i shown some of x dressing sites for her she apreciated some of the beautifull x dressers(tg) also. now please guide me how can i convince her - and how can i make my life happyness please help me
2007-07-01 17:43:12 · 11 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she knows verywell that i used to cross dress before marriege. i told her every thing she asked all questions do u like men when u x-dress like i told i dont like i wanna dress and feel like woman thats all. unfartunately earlier i have used hormon pills.. so now i got 40% curves so it is impossible to hide. my brest is growing as woman get. what to do. i am sure she will agree for this. becoz from long lost we dont have sexual relations
2007-07-01 18:18:09 · update #1
It sounds like you didn't tell her about it before you got married which might upset her. Marriage should be based on trust. If she appreciated the crossing dressing web sites, the next time you show her a site ask her how she thinks you'd look in the outfit you're looking at. You may be surprised to find that she already suspects or she may be supportive of trying it. Just be direct and honest.
2007-07-01 17:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When Rudy Giuliani found out that he was a cousin of his wife they divorced or enolled the marriage, I'm not sure. Rudy's cross dressing, that was a joke on SNL, if you don't understand jokes, well I can't help you. Newt Gingrich divorced his wife when she was bedridden so that her children would receive her inheritance in the event of her death. What an evil man! McCain, I don't know anything about his marriage. Thompson has a younger wife. All people that are married should be the same age? All married men should be younger than their wives? If an older man marries a younger woman she should not be pretty? What are you trying to say? Mitt Romney, yes he's only been married once, now that's a defect. According to you, Mormons have many wives, but not according to their church. What morals do Democrats hold near and dear? Religion (abolish all religious symbols in the public square), Family (a marriage can be anything that we want it to be, two moms, two dads, a man and a boy, whatever), Country (we must oppose the facist regime that would intercept terrorist phone calls made from our soil and stop the killing of innocent "freedom fighters" in Iraq who target civilians along with our military) ?
2016-04-01 03:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your crossdressing is your first love and your wife is your second love. And this is tough for the one who is second.
It sounds as if your hobby is really an addiction and the word "hobby" is a euphemism.
And you have to admit that you're the one acting out of norm, and you want your wife to make the changes... What makes you think that it would be any easier for her. She is in love with the man you are, not the woman you want to impersonate.
What I hear from your side is that this crossdressing thing is in control of you - - you have no control over it. This is NEVER right. You can control this. Yes it is an addiction but you have to place limits on it or it will take over your life. You can be happy as a man, a husband and a father. Your manhood is a valuable thing, and a terrible thing to lose.
2007-07-02 10:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you like cross dressing before you got married? You should have share that with your wife up front. It is very unfair to try and make her understand this unusual circumstance now. That is your passion, and not a hobby this seems to be a way of life for you. If you love your wife as much as you say, and take what you do so lightly you have serious problems.
2007-07-01 18:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude/Dudette
YOU should have said something BEFORE the marriage. now your gonna look like you have been Ling to her.
Your best bet is to come clean, and hope for the best. She may suspect, but it not the same as KNOWING.
God Bless
2007-07-01 17:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see anything wrong with what you love, shes suppose to love you and tolarate things, i can't imagine you having to give up somethign you enjoy just to keep the marriage safe
2007-07-01 17:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your wife the truth and honesty.
Just dont steal her knickers or she may not like it at all!
2007-07-01 17:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
seem.s like you didnt tell your wife every thing before you got married. in my opion?
2007-07-01 18:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping and buy matching outfits.
2007-07-01 17:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont even tell her
2007-07-01 21:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋