It sounds cliche to say that I'm in love with my best guy friend, but it really is the truth. The only thing is, he's gay. I've come to terms with it over the past few months, and I know in the back of my head nothing will ever happen, but I honestly feel like he is supposed to be my soulmate. I've talked to him about it, and he knows I love him, and we're best friends so both of us would do anything for each other. Everyone thinks we're going out because we're always together and we kind of act like we're going out in that we hold hands etc. and we're really rather perfect for each other - we share common interests and we can talk to each other about anything. I guess I just don't know if it's possible to "ungayify" him? And part of me feels so selfish to want such a thing, but the other half of me is saying that we're meant to be together for the rest of our lives, and I'm not sure what to do. We're going to diff colleges in the fall and I don't know if i should look for other guys?
2007-07-01 17:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by jmwiz1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
believe me you can do miracles here... make him fall for you in the best way you can... i know you can change him...
2007-07-09 16:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by dark angel 16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but I don't think there's much you can do but remain really good friends. If he's gay, then he's gay. That's something that really might not change anytime soon. So yeah, look for other guys and try to move on and the best of luck for you!!!
2007-07-09 07:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue to b friends with him but maybe back off a bit and let him explore the "gay" world (witch may be a fase) before he makes a desision on if he wants to be with you but don't try to ungay him because if you too are "soul mates" then he will come running back. and maybe you should explore a bit and see what other guys are like before you start planning a weding.
2007-07-09 17:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by gina g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but after all that involvement with him, if he has not made a move...he is not interested in being converted. There are lots of guys with the qualities that you love in him. LOOK FOR OTHER GUYS.
2007-07-08 21:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of couse u should look 4 other guys hes ur friend is just not the guy for you
2007-07-09 17:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by Skylar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please take my advice,,you can never ungay someone.theres plenty of guys out there,you can still remain friends with him,but he would never be there for you the way you need him to be or to deserve to be.take care
2007-07-01 17:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by tammy g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be together for the rest of you lives......as friends
2007-07-09 06:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coursre you should look for other guys.....he's gay and you can't change him.........sorry but, YOU DON'T HAVE A CHANCE
2007-07-01 17:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coursre you should look for other guys
2007-07-09 17:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋