Do you think he's freak,shy guy or he needs help or assistant.
2007-07-01 17:14:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin...even at 37. You won't get any disease and your heart broken. Keep it that way. Sex has so many different mixed emotions to it. I wish I could start over and maybe I wouldn't feel the way that I do. The question is how do you feel about it? If you ask me there's nothing wrong with it. It's your body and no one should tell you or make you feel like something is wrong with it.
If you are trying to have sex and can't get any ask yourself why? Are you the type that doesn't want to settle down? Are you weird? Too needy? Not attractive, bad high gen, bad breath, dress funny, etc. There is so many different reasons why a person would not want to sleep with somebody else. Or are you waiting for a religious reason and there is nothing wrong with it. Find the right person and let that be the only person.
Do not worry what anyone else has to say it's your body you do it anytime or at any age. Hope this helped and Good Luck.
2007-07-01 17:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some people who genuinely have little or no interest in sexual relations. Some actually call themselves "asexual," if they are seeking a way to describe themselves. And if they are happy and functional in their life, there is nothing wrong with this.
Of course, there are people who may suffer from an anxiety disorder which precludes them seeking bodily contact at all with others. And there are others who make a moral or ethical choice not to have sex, such as clerics or those who will not have sex before they are married. There may also be the case where the person is homosexual, and has not come to terms with it, but also has no interest in heterosexual contact. And still others may be voyeurs, where they are more interested in being witness to acts of sex or sexual situations, but not in actually engaging in the act.
In any event, the only reason for concern in this case is whether the man himself feels unhappy that he has not had sex in his life. And that is up to the individual to seek out that experience, or seek help in how to get together with someone.
2007-07-01 17:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by flipmix_sf 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. Poor guy just gave up, didn't he? My first assumption is that he has trouble asserting himself or asking for what he wants or that he's a push over. Spineless, no courage... in relationships at least. That's my honest first impression. But maybe I might get to know this guy and find out there's something else. Like maybe he's made a choice to be celibate and has stood by his conviction. I personally would never do that (nor reccomend it), but I would admire him for sticking to his spiritual quest. Either way, I would not want to be the one to show him the light. I've been with a virgin before and it was odd, maybe because he didn't tell me until afterward. If he would be upfront about it, then it might be good, fun even. Love making is so wonderful.
2007-07-01 17:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by GeminiVirgo1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a guy with alot of self control and self respect. Maybe he hasn't found the right one yet and is saving himself for her, and by doing that; has a great respect for woman. I'd say this man has the qualities many men of today lack, and theres alot to be learned from him.
Good luck findin herr
ceCe*
2007-07-01 17:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that a virgin bride is a problem, and a virgin groom is a disaster, because both partners should know what they like, and have some experience, before they choose to bind themselves to another person. (I'm not advocating one-night-stands though.) On the other hand, if he's happy with himself, and whoever he chooses to bind himself to is happy with that, then its their buisness. I don't think he's a freak, though it is a bit unusual.
2016-05-21 00:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it too much man. I had a friend with the same problem, and it turns out he had some kind of psychiatric disorder. They medicated him, and now he's fine. Listen, do yourself a favor and just drop by a psychologist's office, and ask to talk to a counselor. They'll help you out. Hope this helps.
2007-07-01 17:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really think about it that much. I mean, its OK, and it's not that bad to be a 37-year-old virgin. I'm just not occupied with that thought.
2007-07-01 17:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anna S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK IT'S SWEET ! IT SHOWS HE'S WAITING FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE . HE DOESN'T WANT TO WASTE HIS FIRST TIME ON SOMEONE HE DOESN'T LOVE . WAITING UNTIL HE'S MARRIED SHOWS THE OTHER PERSON HOW MUCH THEY'RE LOVED BY GIVING THEM A GIFT YOU HAVE NEVER GIVEN ANYONE ELSE . THAT IS ONE OF THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFTS IN LIFE ! NOW , IF ONLY EVERYONE NOW AT DAYS WAITED FOR MARRAIGE , THIS WORLD WOULD SEEM A LITTLE BIT BETTER !
2007-07-01 17:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say he is still looking for the perfect 1!
2007-07-01 17:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably shy and anti social.
2007-07-01 17:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋