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I am not a transexxual, i am intersexed. Transgendered ppl had i choice, i didnt. I am tall and can fix up quite pretty, but ppl freak out when they find out...........or, if i dress like a guy, other ppl assume i can lift heavy weight or do hard labor like a man.

2007-07-01 16:59:26 · 17 answers · asked by Happy 3 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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Who says those people are normal? Just be happy with who you are, dear.

2007-07-01 17:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 2 2

People generally get freaked out by things they aren't used to. If they are uneducated about something or if they are not around something, they are going to shy away from it because it is something new that they do not know about. Education is they key to the end of ignorance. The more a person knows about something, the more they will be open about it. Sticking to the GLBT community will probably be your best bet because we are open minded. Good Luck in the future and I hope people become more understanding when you tell them.

2007-07-01 17:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole T 3 · 1 0

Because being intersexed isn't something that's looked at in a positive light. Much of that is just out of ignorance and a lack of exposure to intersexed people.

2007-07-01 19:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 1 1

It's just not common, so that's why people have a problem with it.

I suggest using the net to look for mates who like intersexed people, that way you can cut through a lot of the issues.

2007-07-01 18:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Luis 6 · 2 0

I wouldn't freak out, I would be, however, intrigued. Once I got to know you and I would probably ask you lots of questions. That's because I have never met anyone like you, or let me say, known I have met someone like you.

2007-07-01 17:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Paddington Bear 5 · 2 0

because there are a lot of ignorant people out there, I would never treat someone different just because of something they have no control over. it is what makes you unique, everyone has something that makes them unique, so just remember that you are unique just like everyone else. don't let other ppls ignorance control your life, be yourself and be happy that's all that matters. feel free to email me if you ever need someone to talk to.

2007-07-01 17:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by bookluvr315 4 · 1 0

I am not sure you are telling the truth because I just saw where you answered another question saying that you had been seeing a married man. So do you also have a vagina?

2007-07-01 17:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by sally 5 · 0 2

You have OUR love and support here. I'm sure there must be support groups if you wish to meet others. Otherwise, be yourself. I'm afraid some people just can't help shock
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Rose P.

2007-07-01 17:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by rose p 7 · 2 0

Most people can go an entire lifetime and never meet a hermaphrodite, so when it happens , it is a shock

2007-07-01 17:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 4 0

well there just new with the term. dont worry if i knew u and u told me. i wouldnt freak out. i would still treat u normally

2007-07-01 17:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Ignorance and lack of understanding. It is easier to bash the minorities .
You just be what you want to be and you will find people that understand you.

2007-07-01 17:04:07 · answer #11 · answered by thumba 5 · 1 1

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