very depressed?

Question

I just got back from a cow flop celebration near my house and i'm sooo broken hearted right now. I see everyone with their friends having a good time and then theirs me.......sitting by myself cause i have no friends. Then i purchased a blowup spongebob doll for my lil sister and left. As i was walking a car full of girls start laughing at me and it made me feel even worse........I can't go on like this. I don't want to commit suicide cause i'll go to hell but all i can do is hope something bad happens to me cause i want to die.

I'm a male and 21 by the way.

Answer 1

Its okay, who cares what those group of stupid girls that think they are all that thinks? just care about yourself, talk to people, soon enough you'll make friends, its not worth killing yourself because you don't have friends. I used to feel that way all the time, just talk to people, and soon you'll make friends with them, and their friends.

Answer 2

Depression is not to be fooled around with. I know because I suffered a serious bout of it in the last couple of years that almost killed me (from health complications).

Getting "down" is one thing but if you have been depressed for any length of time longer than a week you need to seek out some help. Go to people you can trust whether it is family, friends, clergy, your family doctor (believe it or not this is one of the best places to seek out help). If you are employed, your employer may have an "esp" or employee services plan that would help locate and provide a counselor at a free or reduced cost. But what ever you do, don't just sit and do nothing. Doing nothing can and will hurt you more than you know.

Once you get started talking these same people may be able to help address your issues with friendship. Remember, with any problem getting two or more heads together is more likely to get you a solution.

Its hard to give you an answer I this type of a forum when you can only give limited information. Please find someone near you that you can trust to help.

Answer 3

cow flop? what in the world is that?

but anyway, just be more social!! even if you're not talking to the "popular" kids, you'll still be socializing and that's good for you! I know it can be hard to make friends sometimes, but the right person will come along and you'll be good friends. Just start talking to them...You could have said "this is really fun, huh?"...be happy, outgoing, and enthuastic about what's going on, in this case "cow flopping". If they ignore or laugh at you, then forget them. Move on and start talking to other people. Kids can be cruel but you can't let it bother you or make you feel insecure...easier said than done, i know.

And don't EVER think about suicide. there ARE other options. do you know how many kids are just like you? you could try joining a church group, or some after school activity to make new friends. you kinda HAVE to talk to them. and most likely you'll find someone with the same interests. join a group that you're actually interested in and there will be people there that you'll get along with since they're interested in this as well..

good luck and i hope this helped. =)

Answer 4

hahahah i know what you mean by wanting something bad to happen to you so you'll die cause you don't wanna commit suicide cause you'll go to hell. ive thought that before. the fact is, a lot of people feel this way, whether you know it or not. my advice is to look up a poem called richard cory. actually, i have it memorized, ill type it out:

whenever richard cory went down town
we people on the pavement looked at him
he was a gentleman from sole to crown
clean favored and imperially slim.

and he was always quietly arrayed
and he was always human when he talked
but still he fluttered pulses when he said "Good Morning,"
and he glittered when he walked.

and he was rich, yes richer than a king,
and admirably schooled in every grace.
in fine, we thought that he was everything
to make us wish that we were in his place.

so on we worked and waited for the light
and went without the meat and cursed the bread
and richard cory one calm summer night
went home and put a bullet through his head.

---alright this poem just means everyone thought he had everything, but the fact is, you dont know how a person's really feeling. that being said, rest assured, a lot of people, even around you now, feel the way you feel, maybe to a lesser extent, but they dont show it. now that you know you can relate to most people around you, my advice is to talk to someone. be friendly to strangers. make a friend. in the meantime, get a pet. that's the best thing you can do. get a cat, cats listen and itll make you feel better.

Answer 5

Quit feeling sorry for yourself and being negative! The first thing you need to do is get a positive attitude and put a smile on your face!

Go to the local coffee shop sit at the counter and order breakfast, smile at the waitress, ask her how she is doing and talk to the people around you. The weather, the food, the news, it doesn't matter what. Don't be negative or complain, be positive and happy. Go back to the same place tomorrow and do the same thing. You will soon get to know some of these people. Do this other places also. People aren't going to come knocking on you door to ask you if you would like to be friends.

Answer 6

Ok listen to me do not commit suicide that is not the way to go and go out and party you will make some friends and as for that car fun of girls there stupid you dont want to do that and leave your little sister and they were probley just laughing that you had a blow up doll. I dont know how old you are but your probley to young to do that so go out and meet people find a girlfriend and get a pet so dont do anything you will regreat and stay posstive. Good Luck!!

Answer 7

Hey man, I know how you feel, For a long time I have been fighting depression due to finiancial problems, relationships backfiring and losing friends. Its just a part a life almost everybody goes through, just think you are not the only one. you just got to remember when you hit rock bottom there is nowhere else to go but up. I bet that sponge bob toy for your sister really made her day, just think how she would feel if you did die. Some things that I do when I feel lonely or depressed is I find activities that I can do solo, like take a hike through the woods, work out, take nice ride through the country with my favorite music playing. Music is a great way to deal with depression, for me anyways.

Answer 8

Hey, like the others said, you need to be positive about yourself. It really does make a difference...Think about the good things that you have in life, not just the bad. And a way to make more friends is to get involved with things you like...If you like to draw, I'm sure you could find an art studio of some kind and get involved there. I'm sure there's people out there who have the same or similar interests as you.

Answer 9

you are a bit depressed but everyone is entitled to a down period. before jumping to conclusions ask yourself, who does like me and were those people really laughing at me. focus on what you do have in your life. everyone has problems like this now and again , i'm living proof.. i have lots of confidence and i think i'm a good looking guy.. but sometimes i feel like the world ignores me and doesn't want anything to do with me. this is probably just a down period in your life. just be positive and positive things will happen. you seem like a Christian by your hell comment, but i'm not gonna preach to you as you probably know all the verses i could possibly throw your way. the best advice for this is literally to have happy thoughts and fight through it. tell yourself that this is not who you are and become more positive = ) .. hang in there you'll be fine , i know it !

Answer 10

Nothing is worth taking your own life. If people laugh at you, that's their problem, not yours. YOu're only 21, life is sooo long and full of ups and downs. YOu have a whole life ahead of you to make new friends and explore new territories in life. Don't waste it being depressed. Go out there and make new friends who won't laugh at you.

Answer 11

Sometimes girl laugh because this is their way of giving you attention. Why don't you let everyone know where you on yahoo q@a and maybe some local can get together and befriend you. Try it!

God Bless