My business comes first in my life, I love it, I enjoy it but.... when I meet someone like me I know "don't go there". I know many people will give different idea's about love should come first but this is the real world and I would like to know if any two people have gotten together and stayed together when they each are married to their own business.
2007-07-01 15:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by Magical 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I'm kind of hoping that when I find someone, they have a passion in their own business, and we would be able to overlap with our help and support. I think I can't do it any other way. Because, As an artist, my schedule can change abruptly, and I would be able to understand theirs did too. It's important to share outlooks and viewpoints and respect for each other's passions. You can both learn from each other, but can't control each other. Because passions can be so demanding, they have to overlap so you share. I know how demanding it can be and I can't put anyone through that unless we both shared each others goals and passions. Otherwise it is not a real relationship that will last.
2007-07-01 16:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I honestly can't comprehend why one or the other has to come "first." Also, I don't think "married to their own business" is appropriately used. Involved, dedicated, a passion for...
Did you know that you can have more than one priority at the same time? Compromises, adjustments, understanding, MUTUALITY. It's really not that difficult. I know of a couple who were very passionate about their professions, & they had perhaps the strongest, & closest relationship of any married couple I can remember at the moment.
For some reason, I "sense" there's more to this than what you're saying, but then, I'm always looking between the lines.
Amazing what can be found there.
2007-07-02 00:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure you have been in love before,,,most have for various reasons.you have chosen your way in life,and that is that.it is a cut and dry life style.the wanting of human touch and understanding is a natural instinct,it will never go away.to be a loner is a life style that is a must ,if you truly believe in what you are doing or willing to sacrifice all for such.you can only answer your own questions,at this point.
don't really like to talk about my self,but as an artist devoted to creativity,i have passed on two women that i can say that i have truly loved and they me.twenty years or so ago they wanted security,house home and kids.i couldn't give that,didn't want to.after all love is seen from the beginning and does so out last the end.they are both married,with kids and the whole bit.
in my opinion,the answer to your question is no.love is not a side line,or somewhere to escape to to give one meaning and purpose.it is a commitment,a life long one at that.it's your decision,and that is that.
the women that i speak of,we are still in love after all these years,and that's a good good memory to hold close to your heart.
hopes this will help to answer your question,but for some reason,i doubt it.
take care.
2007-07-02 00:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by G.L.B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could go through the relationship and keep your own affairs with your own business... but you must be aware that there are certain things that you need to compromise to make your relationship grew or at least work...
try to lay down your paths before you both and try to see together where you could make the paths meet at some points of the ways so you would know where or how you could bend your paths more that they may become one as you plan to get married and be together...
2007-07-01 22:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sahana Ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could a common understanding be negative? On the other hand, is that a basis for fidelity or competition. The two are not compatible. Unless a person is independently wealthy, I would say marriage to business is unavoidable.
2007-07-01 22:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets take our businesses out on a double date.
2007-07-01 22:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An impossible;e relationship. If you are really married to your
business, you haven't got time for a relationship.
2007-07-01 23:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by producer_vortex 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Negotiations would be more smooth, comfortable, meaningful, fruitful, and the relationships thereafter more lasting !
When people who have truly "ESPOUSED" meet, the 'knot' is 'bound' to be a 'lasting' one !!
2007-07-01 22:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have an affair.
2007-07-01 22:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do business!
2007-07-01 23:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by sristi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋