Why are parents so unsupportive? the go telling me that im fat and unhealthy and i need to loose weigh before i die and whatever, and then they go out shopping and buy chips, cookies, strudel minis, licorice, etc, i keep telling them that they arent good and they dont help anyone, but then they always say it was onsale, or i wanted them, or whatever, they are so temping! i lost 10 pounds, i was working for 20 more, and then they bring home all the junk food, and i gain 5 pounds. really. what do i do? im planning to throw everything out tomorrow when they are gone to work. but what else? why cant they understand that i want to loose weight!!! im tired of being fat, and they can see that, but why dont they do anything about it?
2007-07-01 13:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anon omus 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Parents aren't any better at being perfect than anyone else, but it sure puts you in a difficult position. The only things I can think of that might help you are for you to go food shopping with your parents and make sure that foods that help you end up in the shopping cart. Maybe your parents will be able to see what you mean when you're putting veggies and sensible things in the cart and they notice that they are contributing strudel minis to the family food supply.
The other thing I can suggest is that you get out of that caloric minefield and go out for a lot of walks. Getting away from temptation will help you and there are few exercises that are so easy to do and so effective as walking.
I think it's great you lost ten pounds, even if five came back. That's still a five pound net loss and you sound determined and smart--I'm betting that you do lose the rest of the weight.
Good luck to you.
2007-07-01 14:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that parents can be unsupportive, but they don't quite know how hard it is for people now-a-days--especially girls. Just be patient and keep making the point that they aren't helping you with this. Maybe try having them buy baked chips and healthier snacks instead. Apples can be bought for a good price and are a good alternative to cookies.
Again, just keep telling them that you need their help and support to help you lose.
Good luck!
2007-07-01 14:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im glad u had the chance to vent.
my advice: just ignore the sweets. every time u want a cookie, for example, eat a cheesestick or a carrot. explain ur feelings to your parents, and try to keep the junk food out of sight. also, a bit of exercise would help you lose weight, plus it will make u look toned. good luck w/ the weight loss!
2007-07-01 14:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by tropicaltwist782 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, and i ended up developing an eating disorder before they realized the junk food was a serious problem for me, then they finally stopped buying it. but what you can do is exercise if you arent already doing so. if you want to have 6 oreos, youll have to walk on the treadmill for about an hour to burn that 320 calories. just think of it in terms of money and work. if you want to spend money, you've got to work to get it back, so if you want to eat and put a dent in your daily calorie allowance, then you'll have to work out, to make that better.
2007-07-01 14:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by candi b 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They sound more emotionally abusive than anything. They shouldn't tell you that you're fat. Them buying goodies is not a problem if you have will power. If you're serious about losing weight, don't eat it. Get a job (if you don't have one) and buy some healthy food for you.
Don't let them get you down. How you feel is all that matters. And if you feel fat, do something about it. Don't blame them for your eating habits. I doubt that they force feed you.
Good Luck.
2007-07-01 14:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try just sitting down with your parents and explain how you feel. From what you say, it sounds like they do care for you.
But resisting the temptation ultimately lies with you and it sounds like you have your mind made up to lose the weight. So stick with it and you'll eventually get what you want.
And good luck!!!!
2007-07-01 14:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by mustangjackie2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They see you through coloured glasses. You are their baby and you'll always be perfect. Talk to them that you seriously want to lose weight and would appreciate their help. Maybe they don't think you really want to lose it. Also, you need to have will power. Just because something is there, doesn't mean that you have to eat it. Remember that in the eyes of your parents you will always be their little princess.
2007-07-01 13:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by W♥ Knit Twit ♥P 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
someone needs to have a serious talk with you parents. but good for you for trying to lose weight! I know its real hard to resist stuff like that. Have you tryed really telling them how that feels? they should be more supportive. maybe if you joined a hiphop or aerobics class at the gym you'll see your progress and you won't want to eat like that anymore.
2007-07-01 13:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ancokely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that if they can't stop buying junk food, then they should buy you more healthy foods. And drink lotsa water too. I'd say more, but I'm really sick and I'm tired.
2007-07-01 13:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is not about your parents, it is about you and your self control. So what if they bring all that yummy stuff into the house, that doesn't mean you have to eat it. Just say NO!
2007-07-01 14:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by deb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋