Ok so my friend and me had both liked the same guy since last year, but just a couple of weeks ago they started dating and im happy for them. But yet there's something like jealousy down in the pit of my stomach and i dont know if i should just repress it, like i've been doing, or if i should just tell my friend how i feel.
P.S. I'm having a 16th birthday party and i think he might be coming. also my friend is one of those people that if you tell them how you feel about something, if it's there boyfriend for example, they will try to make you feel better. even if that means breaking up with there all time crush.
2007-07-01 13:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by mnky82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yep tell her. if she's really your friend she'll understand. also, i don't think that liking someone for a year makes them your all time crush >-> lol. don't fret, its just a small feeling, it should be worked out with hardly any trouble. also, i wouldn't suggest telling her before your b day...do it like a day after and make it seem as if your really sad and down. which you must be...best of luck to you and hope that it gets solved swiftly!
2007-07-01 16:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ψ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look....if they're happy together, be happy for them and let it go, hes not yours so it dosent matter - take this for and example- my best friend had had a crush on my boyfriend for a while and instead of just keeping her feelings to herself and letting me be happy with him.she got him to break up with me knowing how hard my life was when it all started. trust me you dont want to end up being the bi*chy friend because of how you felt, i know you cant hide you feelings forever but if you want to be a good friend and do whats right leave it alone, trust me you'll all be better off and no one will get hurt.
2007-07-09 20:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by haylee k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't say anything at all to your girlfriend. It can only have a negative result.
Second, have the birthday party, and be nice to them (remember they are a pair).
Remember the saying: Words are like toothpaste, once it's out there isn't any putting it back.
2007-07-09 16:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is simple you are only young yourself, there are plenty more fish in the sea, yoou will meet someone else, who may be better than this friend, but after saying that if this guy is cheating on your pal with you you need to tell her, if she is a friend she will be always your friend.
2007-07-09 20:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend how you are feeling, and I don't think you should let her break up with him if she tries, its not fair to your friend
2007-07-09 19:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Crazzy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill her or play rock paler siccors... just kidding!!!!!! Pretend that you are so over him or find some other "hottie" for her to be instrested in. Does he even like either one of you?????
2007-07-08 18:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have told her before i know how u feel but just dont make your friend feel bad
2007-07-08 19:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Skylar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 16 MY GOD CHILL CHICK THERE ARE OTHER GUYS AND YOU NEVER KNOW HE MAY NOT LIKE HER OR YOU EITHER FOR THAT MATTER GUYS THIS AGE ARE LIKE FISH THEY ARE SLIPPERY AND THERE ARE LOTS OF FISH IN THE SEA WAIT FOR A NO SLICK ONE OK
2007-07-09 20:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend how you feel and if she is realy your friend she would sacrifice her happiness for yours. that happened to me too but she didn't turn out to be a very good friend she just ****** him in his back seat...........bi*ch
2007-07-09 11:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend how u feel i bet tht she'll try and fix it to make u feel better
2007-07-01 20:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by lalala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋