I have completely changed into a horrible selfish person and just want to take back the last 6 months, i dont want this to be me, i dont want to have changed like this, it just doesnt happen to people and i ahve wasted 6 months of my life when i should have just been a happy cool person, i just want her back but how can i when she is gone and i have destroyed everything from my past 23 years, i just want to be the happy girl i was, there is nothing i want to do now going forward and anything that i do do now i 'm doing becuse i have to not because i want to but i dont want to be unhappy fro the rest of my life! I jsut want myself back ! Will i always be a sad miserable person? I could have done so much and al i do is htink about the old me and what she would be doing now! I 'm so ashamed...what can i do?
2007-07-01 13:12:04 · 5 answers · asked by ss s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ok. I don't feel like going back through hundreds of questions to prove it, but I think I have seen this exact same question before. I remember the writing style. Forgive me if I am incorrect, thousands of questions come across here in an hour, but if I an correct then I think that means you have not taken the previous advice you were given and changed the things you were advised to change to make your life better. You have instead let 2 or 3 weeks pass by and reposted the same question. Either the advice you were given was bad, or you do not want to take it because it was not what you wanted to hear. I wish you luck, but whatever you do remember this. It is better to act incorrectly then to sit on your butt and do nothing at all.
YA is for advice. Only you can make the changes. Good luck.
2007-07-01 13:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by ambergail1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begin to act the way you were before whatever. Try to make amends. It is hard to say what you should do when you don't give any specifics, but know that life does go on all around us. Life is not as profoundly affected by anything we do as we are. But we can get our life back, albeit changed. I suggest seeing a therapist that you can talk to because talking about the past six months and before may be very important to your making a recovery.
2007-07-01 20:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you doing anything, think in your head "Is this the right thing to do?"
I also recommend you keep a diary every night of everything you regret you did during the day. Note the tiniest things you hab done that you regret and work on how to improve them.
~ Spyroflame ~
2007-07-01 21:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on bended knee , swallow your pride and ask for forgiveness . Then move on .
2007-07-01 20:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Suicide642 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
read the book' the secret' well worth it.
2007-07-01 20:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋