right now i just want to run away from my house, im so tired of my family and my mom blaming me for everything and my dad and mom not letting me talk to my boyfriend all of a sudden or let me hang out with him. it is just killing me. im just so angry i could just run away. i know its bad, but i feel like doing it.
2007-07-01 13:11:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
they just dont appreciate me or at least treat me like they do. im a good kid. i really am.
2007-07-01 13:14:45 · update #1
i told my mom i was leaving to see the world at 3 yrs old. lol
i was kicked out at 18 and then refused to go back....many times i wish that things had been different.
don't leave until you are able to get a good job and can support yourself and still have a relationship with your parents...bite your lip and discuss your feels with them but don't expect a perfect outcome....learning to be mature and able to take care of yourself takes work...
you sound like a strong lady....
2007-07-01 13:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by blueJean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about it. It's not very reasonable is it? I mean where would you go, how long would you stay?
And if you do decide to do it, when you come home, your parents will just be more angry than they were in the first place.
Everyone gets angry and frustrated sometimes, but you can't (literally) run away from your problems. It won't solve anything.
Show your maturity by sitting down, talking, expressing how you feel, and compromising with them. Running away can be seen as a childish thing to do.
2007-07-01 13:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by the cat's pajamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AMEN SISTER! Same here with me. I know how you feel and that's kind or like how I am treated. I keep saying that I am going to go live at a friends house. But running away doesn't solve anything. A lot of people think that's what they should do and that will solve their problem but it doesn't. I think you should just deal with the problem and tell your parents to stop. Its your life and your not a little kid anymore. You should get to make your own choices now. That's what I told my mom. After that she didn't say anything.
2007-07-01 13:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by ESCAPE THE FATE FREAK! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels like running away at some time or other. Things do get overwhelming and seemingly insurmountable. Don't fret, sweetie. Remember that this too shall pass. Bad times that feel impossibly long always manage to ease over time.
Someone mentioned writing in a journal. I agree that's a great way to get some of your feelings out. Drawing is helpful too, as is exercise. Do what you can to help yourself relax. Good luck.
2007-07-01 13:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by CantGetThereFromHere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... I know how you feel, minus the boyfriend part... but you just have to keep trying to get through it... when my mom starts her crap and blames me for everything, I just tell her okay and brush it off (or try to, it's super hard...) and go listen to some music, or draw, or ever write something... it doesn't have to be about your mom either, it just gives you a chance to escape to a different world. Whenever she's in a better mood, bullsh!t with her just a little and tell her that you're wrong and she's right... blah blah... then ask her, nicely why you can't hang out with your boyfriend anymore.
2007-07-01 13:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Depprocker182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're having a rough couple of days this past week! I'm sure we've all felt like you at one time or another, so don't think you're alone - you're not. I felt like the whole world was against me when I was about 15. My Mom got on me about everything & my younger sister didn't hear a thing. I took it all. Needless to say, I left home at 17, after I found out I graduated & didn't even hang around for graduation! I got married young & had my first two children whom I always kiddingly say I grew up w/them. I do not regert it, even tho that marriage lasted just shy of 5 yrs. I had one date when I was 15, the car honestly broke down, I got home way later than I was suppose to, wasn't allowed to date anyone until I was 16! My family was VERY strict, my Dad was a minister. So, you can imagine how rough I had it. After I left home, got married & 14 mos. later I had my first daughter. I lost my Mother 5 days later & she was only 49. I always was fair w/my kids, gave them room to "breath", but they also had to obey my rules growing up. My oldest son packed his "pillow case" @ 12 & was going to run away. I wasn't too worried, because I knew he'd get hungry at dinner time & I'd see him soon...Yep, I was right, he was home for dinner. So, guess what I'm getting at, we all have had our rough times, our parents aren't fare times, but honest, they did love us. Your parents do care/love you, or they wouldn't care about you. Wouldn't you rather have two parents to tell you what to do or what not to do than have parents who don't care, let you run the streets w/no concern about you whatsoever?! Can you imagine a life like that? There are many kids out there who live just like that & there's no love or feelings in their home. Take a big look at your whole life & then determine, is it REALLY that awful bad?! Some day you'll be a parent, on the other side of the fence, then look back on your life. Remember now when you're trying to raise your own children. Bet it won't be too different than what you're living rite now! Your day w/come....Be happy, your parents love you!
2007-07-01 13:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sue C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 11:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by fearing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do run away where would you go? You should not run away. Just talk to your parents.
2007-07-01 13:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...I DID run away once...but it sucked so I came back home. I agree...you should sit down and tell them what you just told us.
2007-07-01 13:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by JC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with them and calmly tell them that. (about being a good kid)...seriously.
2007-07-01 13:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋