lets start with saying that my best friend and i were inseparable until like last weekend when i got a myspace profile she hepled me set it up and now like she always mad at me or at least won't talk to me on the phone reply to my emails or messages what should i do???? please help!!! i really don't want to lose a good friend 4ever!!!! Help please!!!
2007-07-01 08:16:57 · 23 answers · asked by ☼ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
umm yeah i cant even email her cuz she wont answer and when i try to talk to her on the phone be4 i can ask her she says she HAS To go
2007-07-01 08:38:54 · update #1
Perhaps you've offended her w/ out realizing it,talk to her 'face to face' and ask "Have I did anything to upset you, I've been trying to contact you, I miss ya".
2007-07-09 07:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah joys of best friends hey?
Okay my best friend did the same thing to me but on nexopia instead of myspace.
What you do is thank her for making you a myspace (if u already did before then thank her again) and ask her what's going on and why wont she talk to you. It's probably a good reason if she's ignoring you. At the end of you message or e-mail put something along the lines of your my best friend and i never want to lose you and i appreciate all that you've done for me.
Chances are she might think that you don't care for anything she does, but that's just my guess.
Hope things work out for you!
2007-07-01 15:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Devon;; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to call and leave her a message that you really need to speak to her as soon as possible.Or just try going over to her house and talking to her. It dosent seem like youve done anything wrong.It seems as if your best friend is rather jealous of you. But , no matter what always be the bigger person in any situation. Just go ahead and apologize anyway and if she dosent accept it , thats o.k. move on because life is too short to be playing around with people that really dont have your best interrest at heart anyway. Godbless
2007-07-09 15:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is on equal and mutual respect . no matter how other factors of finance , age, education ,status may be varying and extremely different.
Now till this date you are her best friend and suddenly she leaves you and not only ignores you but behaves arrogantly and insultingly.
This is not friendship. She must have smelt something fishy about your behavior or intentions . She must have gathered some data from your profile itself which might have irritated her or given her clue about your true self or she might have thought that your level is higher than hers , or any silly things which prompted her to take a irrational and drastic step to cut off from you.
this has happened but it is good for you. you need not worry. if she is your best friend she will realize this and repent for her bad behavior you have not insulted her. this is her one way response. just forgive her and forget her .
Let time heal your hurts and wounds.
If she was really best friend she will come back otherwise will be gone forever. and you will have better friends who knows. God is great he has better designs for all of us.
If you set a bird free. and he fly away think it is his freedom and was not meant for you. if it comes back be grateful to God.
2007-07-09 14:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say leave her alone for a while. Give her time to get over whatever she's going through and then when you think it's bee enough time, email or call again. And if that doesn't work, go to her house. Tell her you're concerned, she can't rely ignore you if you're there, and if she does, then I would suggest talking to her parents, see if anythings wrong and tell them to leave her something from you. Hope it all works out!
2007-07-09 14:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You refer to this person as your best friend - yet, she has rudely cut off all communication with you, tossed you aside like she doesn't know you. Seriously, do you want to be friends with someone who will treat you that way? Yes, it's hurtful - but when you consider her unexplained rudeness, do you really want this type of friend in your life? If she were truly your friend, she would have been considerate enough to talk to you about whatever bug is up her butt. For now, call other friends, send emails, and connect with people who will treat your friendship with respect.
2007-07-01 15:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Catchet22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like to me that she has issues of her own to work out maybe you have someone on your friends list on myspace that she doesnt like but you do and if that is the case than she needs to grow up and be and adult and stop acting like a child
2007-07-01 15:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by pinksmallbubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i know is what works for me and that is by writing a letter to her explaining exactly how you feel and this way she cant hang up on you nor can she interrupt you....This way you get it all out and then she has time to put her answer into words that you will understand...This seems to work for me most of the time...
2007-07-09 13:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i kinda dont understand why she wont talk to you cause of a myspace account that i dont get but ummmm just give her time maybe something is going on you never know but you might have to pretend your somebody else and call her and see if she will answer i know it sounds crazy but hey you have to do what you have to do
2007-07-01 15:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is send her an email and ask her what's up?
Ask her why she won't talk to you and ask her if you did anything wrong to hurt her. It is better to know rather than wondering why.
2007-07-01 15:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by hearts101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋