He hasnt answered. We rowed about Sunday dinner and the TV of all things. We have 2 kids and have been together over 10 yrs. No one has ever been unfaithfull.
2007-07-01 07:02:41 · 23 answers · asked by babyshambles 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's in the pub wondering why you had a row about something so silly. Bet he's back with his tail between his legs soon.
2007-07-01 10:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its only been a short while, and he may just need time to cool off. Leave him be for now. Only start to worry if he doesnt come home tonight, there could be a multitude of reasons why he might not do that- but there is no point in elaborating on might be's just yet. you've both been together a long time, and a row over the dinner or telly could just be a front for other issues brimming beneath the surface. Wait for a calm moment when you can both talk without interuptions and ask him if there is anything he would like to discuss about your relationship. You may not like the anwser, but for things to get better you will need to remain calm and not go into defensive mode. Who knows it could force a change for the better, with or without him.
2007-07-01 07:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
(((((Hugs to you))))) I know it's not easy when your partner leaves, especially after an argument,but I would still let it go for now. He probably just needed some time to cool down, and will return when he's ready. If, for some reason he isn't home by a decent hour, I would try calling again, just to make sure he's okay. I hope everything is okay between the two of you.
2007-07-01 12:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by just my opinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too stressed over it Babysham, women and men react differently to rows. We like to talk about them and resolve them, and it infuriates them because they really do cope better by just walking away from them, it's one of those many reasons why I never understand how the human race has lasted as long as it has, we seem so incompatible.
I would just try to de-stress and wait it out. And when he does come back, try to resist the urge to mention the argument or the fact he didn't reply to your messages and calls because that will only inflame it again, however much you want to talk about it.
He will be back
2007-07-01 07:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Eden* 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He'll come back. Men like to go off and have a sulk, then turn up later, but don't want the grief. Don't carry on the row when he gets back
2007-07-01 08:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let him cool down love,it must have been a real blowout! But after ten years he's not chucking it all in for a fight over the telly!Calm down and be natural when he comes in,be lovable and when the makeup sex is over talk about it.Use this as a growing experience,learn from it,BOTH of you.
2007-07-01 07:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara D 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What an arrogant way to behave - apart from how you are feeling, how are his kids handling this? OK, so he needs a bit of time to calm down and see things rationally, but he's behaving like a spoilt brat. When he does get in touch, you need to talk things through together. Good luck honey.
2007-07-01 07:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jan S 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hi Babysham What the others said is right I have been married 40 years. He will be back when he has finished his strop. Make him a cup of tea!
2007-07-01 10:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi babysham, it depends what you sent in your text, my hubby done this on me once, only once and he would not answer his phone for two days, we all have our ups and downs , but when he came home i sat down and explained how worried i was that he did not answer, he said he could,nt because he would have said a lot of things in temper that he could not take back so he needed time to cool off, now if it happens he sends me a text with i need time message ,so i know hes ok and only sulking, works for us. x
2007-07-01 07:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by dollyk 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as long as he comes home the same day you fell out with him it's ok. but if he stays out all night he could be using this as an excuse to mess around with someone else and if he does stay out ask him where he slept last night, dont be fooled no matter how quite he is! seen this happen before..
2007-07-01 23:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋