I want to know if there are people like me who hate to cry because they think it's weak, keep their emotions inside and hate talking about their problems, and even when they are among people they feel alone. I want to know that I'm not the only one like this.
2007-07-01 03:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You are not alone in this.
I used to feel like this when I was younger.
I used to think that nobody liked me, so I hated everything about myself.
I was transfer ed to a councilor who worked through the reasons I felt this way.
I slowly began to feel something I tho rt I would never feel, "confident and happy to be who I was".
You do not have to suffer any more, there is help out there.
Please go and see your doctor, or tell someone how you are feeling so they can encourage you to get help.
I hope you do it sooner rather then later so you can begin to enjoy life.
Try and also look for groups where you can share your thorts with others in your position.
2007-07-01 03:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you from Adam, but I hear you loud and clear, and there are so many people like us who work hard every day to be normal, OR what we perceive normal to be . It is not a bad thing to cry, It does comfort us , If you do not chose to talk to other about your inner feelings, You need to get them out. I have a continuing journal, I keep it in a file in my E-mail site, and each time I need to vent, cry, relieve some of my inner feelings , I click on that file and , add another day to it. And write it all down. But! the main thing I do, while I'm doing it, is to THINK, I look for a bright spot in that day, something that gave me pleasure if only for a moment, and I write it in there. You are not alone. Hugs!
2007-07-01 10:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know, that sometimes hurts, but at other times it feels good to be different.
Cheer up, you do not need to belong to feel happy. Take that idea out of your mind, live life and try to enjoy... before you know it, you'll see people you wouldn't mind telling your feelings to, people that make you feel loved and happy.
2007-07-01 10:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Serendipity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people feel like this at times. I have and believe me crying isn't weak. has cried many times and undoubtedly will cry more because of my temperament. you shouldn't worry and there are times when we all need to cry, confide in others and also just suffer, so please if things get to rough seek professional care. if you are not certain who to contact telephone your local welfare or human service department.
2007-07-01 10:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME!!!
The world has billions of people on it. How could you be the only one going through this?
And don't think you don't belong. if you didn't belong you wouldn't have ever been born, silly <:.
2007-07-01 11:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by AyK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not lonely. You feel comfortable being alone, but you are not weak or lonely. You can feel within yourself without feeling lonely. To be alone, one has to acknowledges their fear of being alone. I do not believe that you can be alone, but also be lonely. I can be alone but not be lonely. If this is your position, I support it
2007-07-01 10:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Boomer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many but you need counseling to learn how to express your feelings, or you will do something dangerous to yourself or others.
2007-07-01 10:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by fran j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋