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Was it planned? how did he react? how old were you?

2007-07-01 02:49:09 · 42 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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2 years and yes it was planned. I was 25. He was over the moon. He would have been over the moon even if it was unplanned and we weren't married, as would I have been. Children are the best thing ever.

2007-07-01 02:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by powder 6 · 1 0

I was with my first boyf for 10 months when I fell pregnant at 26, he didnt want to know and I felt all alone and decided to have a termination. Was with him for a further 4 years and finally woke up to the fact that he just took each day as it came. Felt like he didnt want to commit so found someone else last year and left him. Have now been with my current partner for 11 months and am 11 weeks pregnant, which makes it 9 months id known him as I fell pregnant. He is 37 and I am now 31 and this time round it was planned and couldnt be any happier. We were only trying for 4 months and im due in January. Im a firm believer in fate and this was just meant to be!! x

2007-07-01 04:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine A 3 · 0 0

Ok so I was 20 years old I had been with him since I was 17. We had bought our house when I was 19 and he was 23. Our daughter wasn't planned we were both very drunk didn't use precautions but we were actually over the moon.
You can't predict what will happen and how you will feel... My daughter is now 2 and half and her dad and I split up 9 months ago so I would say that you need to be 100% sure. I wouldn't change anything for the world my daughter is my life but things happen you could be 16 or 36 you never know what's round the corner..

2007-07-01 05:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by sarah s 1 · 0 0

I had only been with my partner for 12 weeks when i got pregnant. Me an him were bout the only 2 that were delighted as everyone didnt think we were going to last. Our son is now 3 years old an now we have a daughter of 18 months an im 11 weeks pregnant an we are still going strong!! I was 18 when i fell pregnant.

2007-07-01 06:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi, me and my partner were friends for 3 years before we got together. I already had 2 children from a previous relationship. When we did finally become an item, we had only been together for 4 months and I was pregnant. Our son was planned, I had a coil before we got together and had it removed to fall pregnant. When our first son was 4 months old, I found that I was pregnant again- not planned but wouldn't change it. Our second son is now 11 months and I have just found out that im 10 weeks pregnant again, again not planned but also dont regret it. Me and my partner are still very much in love and very happy.
His reaction, to the first pregnancy- over the moon.
To the second pregnancy- again over the moon but to this pregnancy, shock!! We had both been so careful and it still happened, he's fine now and very happy and says "it was obviously meant to me".
Our ages, im 26 and he's 31.

2007-07-01 03:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by jo 3 · 1 0

I've been with my partner for 8 years. I was 17 when we met and 24 when we got married. I'm now 26. We started trying for a baby about a year ago. I got pregnant after 2 months but unfortunatly suffered a miscarriage at 8 weeks. I'm now pregnant again (11 weeks) and again this was planned. This time round we are both more anxious then excited but will prob allow excitement to kick in once we see out baby at my first scan (in 2 weeks time)!!

2007-07-02 00:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by SP 2 · 0 0

I was with my ex-husband for 3 years and i got pregnant a few weeks after we got married. he was excited when i told him unfortunatly that didnt stop him from cheating on me and leaving me when i was 5 months pregnant for someone else he also got pregnant
With my son I was with his father for over a year we had just got engaged a couple of weeks before i missed my period
I am now 35 weeks pregnant and SURPRISE the man that once begged me for kids changed his mind and now i'm going to be a single mom of 2. But even though neither one of them were "planned" i love both my kids with all my heart and will always be here for them. They are and always will be the best thing that's happened to me i just have to believe that everything happens for a reason ( I would like to know what the #$% it is) I 'm done now birth control obviously doesnt work for me so I'm getting a tubal because even though i love my kids i dont want to go through this alone again

2007-07-01 12:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by cee_jae22 3 · 0 0

About a month.
We'd known each other longer but weren't an item.
I was 27 and he was 26.
It wasn't planned and we were both a bit shocked but went ahead anyway.
Friends said it wouldn't last, and yes, we've had some seriously rocky patches in the early days but we have been together 10 years, married for 3 and are very happy....and our second together is on the way...

2007-07-01 05:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0 0

My ex and I were together for a little over a year before our first. She was unplanned, he didn't want her. I was 17, had her at 18 and he was 23. Almost 7 years later we had our second. This time we have been together 1 year and I'm 22 weeks pregnant. I'm 31 and he's 33. This one was planned and very much wanted.

2007-07-01 04:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lostlove 5 · 0 0

We had been together 4 months when I fell pregnant Yes it was planned he was pleased I was 22 and we are still together 8 years on

2007-07-01 06:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by susan p 1 · 0 0

Ive got 3 children, 1 boy and twin girls. We had been together for about a year when i fell pregnant with our first. He was very excited. He was 22 and i was 20

2007-07-01 03:01:41 · answer #11 · answered by Keligh P 6 · 0 0

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