I've been married for two years (dated for two years before) and sometimes I look at my husband and silently thank god for him and the overwhelming feeling I get when I look at him and when he touches me. I think marriage and the things that happen (or should happen) are beautiful. Two people fall in love, get married and spend their lives together. I know sometimes people make mistakes, they don't marry the right person or they have fights and say hurtful words. But, for me anyways it's just petty stuff. Marriage isn't looked upon as an important thing nowadays, with so much teen sex and marriage not being "necessary" and maybe it isn't. But the fact I know my husband loves me and only me I think it's beautiful.
2007-07-01 01:56:26 · 33 answers · asked by ♥Ani♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nice to see positive things on here about being married ..I get sick of seeing all theres negative things on here about how bad someones marriage is ..........good luck hope its last forever
2007-07-01 02:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Weird in not the word, I don't even think there is a word in the dictionary for your situation. Stupid would be the closest I could come to if I would choose one. Trust = Fidelity. So I don't understand how you can say you have trust in your marriage. I don't call this trust I call it, having your cake and eating it to. If you trust enough so much why did you get married? Obviously your trust is limited to a degree otherwise you would have just have lived with each other, somewhere in the back of your mind you wanted to make sure that if it does not last forever you will have the Legal right of property sharing, alimony, child support etc. Dearie, you are are 30, wait another couple of years, and your husband will want to trade you in for 2- 18 yr. olds, or 2- 20 yr. olds. What the hell (excuse my language) are you doing. It might be stable now, but your on the road to disaster. Obviously you guys are not realistic. Who's idea was it to begin with? I would bet my bottom dollar it was your husbands. So just ponder that thought. Boy does your husband have you brainwashed. Again, fidelity = trust and visa verse Truth to tell, your kids are the ones that will eventually be the sacrificial lambs, from your stable(?) environment. You can only play with fire for so long, eventually the house burns down.
2016-04-01 01:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. I've been married almost a year. I'm very happy and still head over heels in love with my husband. He loves me the same. He was married before and it didn't work out. They were young and became too different. I've never been married. I have always held marriage in high esteem. Both of our parents are still married. Divorce is an anomaly in my family. Most relatives I know are still married to their original spouses as far as I know. It's too bad that families are being separated.
2007-07-06 09:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Unsub29 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is an over-rated social constitution.
You would love your husband and he would love you just as much even if you weren't married - marriage it an outdated technicality.
Your love and commitment doesn't mean any more just because you signed a registry and swapped rings. Your love and commitment to each other - not the formality of marriage - is what's beautiful.
2007-07-08 21:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by mmasseychase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's beautiful. We just got married less then 2 weeks ago. I've never experienced anything like it. I'm really happy and we have our own little family here. I've been married before, but the guy was wrong for me and I was so stressed from day one. I fully realize how happy we are now. I hope God will always bless our marriage and bless everyone's.
2007-07-01 04:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by smiles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marry the right person and your life will be much happier, marry the wrong one and you have invited the biggest misery ever into your world.
But since it is all a crap shoot--you have no idea what those vows will look like over the course of your life together--even if you still are feeling those heady emotions of early love, you truly cannot image how it will all play out--it is a gamble I am sooo glad I took and I can't imagine my life any other way.
2007-07-08 17:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by wildatheart 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are so right. I can look at my husband of almost two years sometimes and actually loose my breath because I love him so much. I think marriage is one of the most important thing's in the world I also believe that if you can succeed in marriage you can at anything. I'm so glad that you and your husband are so in love and I hope it lasts forever.
2007-07-06 20:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by nynerprincess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats the truth, i have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and every time i am with her i just get this feeling that she is the one for me and i thank the lord every moment of my life that she is with me, and every time i hold her in my arms or look into her eyes, i get a sense of love that i have never felt before, and hope to ask her to spend the rest of her life with me soon. Marriage is a very powerful thing, but you can only feel that power if you are with the person that is right for you.
2007-07-01 02:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by ffpdfirefighter2002 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is beautiful! I too still look over at my hubby and just thank God I have him in my life. Marriage is truly a blessing. It is a wonderful feeling to know that the person lying next to you have committed their life to you. It is so great to know you have your best friend there for you through thick and thin.... forever.
2007-07-01 02:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree, love and marriage are the most beautiful things in the world.
2007-07-01 16:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Tweety 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋