How would a Leo deal with a Cancer? I have two Cancer friends I idolize like crazy and I have tried to be there for them both, providing anything neccessary from advice to babysitting, even being submissive at times, but have been rejected on numerous occasions, if not fully blown off, as well as being emotionally hurt many times no matter how I approach the situation. Serious advice needed.
2007-07-01 01:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by HeavensSpire 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
you need to stop being a doormat and make yourself happy sometimes-- do things for yourself sometimes, not just your friends. cancers are awesome though-- i'm surprised that a leo would be that submissive and over-giving
2007-07-01 01:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a cancer and have a friend that is a leo. The problem is that the LEO is always wanting to be KING of the JUngle and this is hard for them to become submissive even if for only a minute. LEO's are not very sensitive not to say that you don't care but most don't want others to see there sensitive side. CANCERS are a bundle of water works and are subject to shed a tear just by watching the evening news. Try to be understandin... you are not hurting their feelings ...they are just a bundle of raw emotions.
2007-07-01 04:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by cancergul1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When Cancer and Leo form a friendship, they are often able to recognize and satisfy each other's basic needs. Both need devotion and care, but Cancer values stability and a solid emotional balance, while Leo likes compliments and wants to be admired. They are both strongly loyal, often possessive of each other when other friends and acquaintances vie for their time. They are also both committed to a lasting, successful friendship. Each is able to provide what the other needs because their aspirations are so similar.Both partners like comfort and security, often doing things on a grand scale. Cancer and Leo both enjoy a lovely environment and a close-knit crew of friends. Leo tends to be flamboyant, and Cancer will be the less colorful, more sensitive counterpart. Leo is bigger and bolder and vivid, the epitome of splendor and stature. Because both Signs are so determined, these friends really need to work to understand and accept each other.Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and Leo is ruled by the Sun. The Sun is about ego and self, and it radiates warmth and light. Leo indeed radiates this kind of energy and enthusiasm. The Moon is about nurturing and emotion. Together the combination of masculine and feminine energy is why they admire and support each other. The Sun represents life, and the Moon represents cultivation; as long as they are careful to understand each other, their combination is a positive one. Cancer is a Water Sign, and Leo is a Fire Sign. Leo wants glory and recognition, while Cancer yearns for security and stability. Both Signs want to be in charge, but in different ways. They may have a number or arguments around this issue. As long as they reassure each other that their relationship is important to both of them, they can usually find a happy medium.Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Leo is a Fixed Sign. Leo can be opinionated and inflexible, Cancer being the subtle manipulative force. Cancer can be more persistent when it comes to planning things, while Leo will see it through to completion. The Crab prefers a career calm and stable life. Leo loves to shake things up and embraces the unexpected and the novel. Once Leo and Cancer have committed to their friendship, each of them will follow their natural instincts to devote themselves to its upkeep. If they have differing ideas, they may find themselves on a never-ending emotional roller coaster. Cancer is more quietly controlling than Leo, though, and might--to a degree--manipulate their friend when it seems practical to do so.The best aspect of the Cancer-Leo friendship is their mutual commitment to a sincere connection. Together this duo can support each other in positive and healthy ways. They are seen as a great team by others, and their mutual desire for a secure, caring friendship makes them strive for harmony.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-07-01 02:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree with Cancergurl1977 :-)
Leo ppl always want to be The King of The Jungle. They think they damn smart, damn good, damn pretty, damn handsome than anyone else around them. They always think they're right, and always want to win.
Dun be so naive, stop pretending that you're happy having friends like them.
I'm a Cancer girl. Yes, it's true that we're very sensitive. But if they treat you like a **** I think you should avoid them and find other friends who can make you happy. Friends who are truly accept you for who you are, not take you for granted and always be there for you through thick or thin. Am I rite?
Don't waste your time, tears, energy or effort on people like them.
2007-07-01 06:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by DeadAndLovely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a cancerian and currently made a leo friend. We get along really well. He liked me and wanted a relationship. I said no coz i know leo man really well. They are very bossy and everything is about them. This friend always copies me. When we go out he wants attention but i always get them than him and he gets very jealous. They always wanna be the laeder and they are very jugemental. John howard is a leo for god sakes. cancerian are very nice people. leo are always fighting. leos are a fire sign and ccancer is a water. Water puts fire out. everyone needs a water sign to calm them down
cheers
2007-07-01 07:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Aby B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well good luck cuz i m cancer and i have 2 sisters one cancer and one Leo
tough situation but you might have to be less stubborn it helps and believe me you will share priceless moments and you should know that whatever they do isn't because they hate you but cancerians don't like people to get involved cuz they feel that this is their responsibility, not other people's so that's why they want to handle everything
2007-07-01 01:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Casanova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make new friends! You seem really nice. When people start to realize you aren't there, maybe they will see how they treat you and are taking you for granted. You could jokingly tell them here and there what you think.
2007-07-01 02:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take care of your own life and screw them. not only they should appreciate your help, they should beg for it.
2007-07-01 01:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋