Ok, im 14 and I have a boyfriend named Billy I have been with for 6 months. And he is also the first guy I have ever loved. He went away to rehab for 2 of those months to and I couldnt talk to him in that time. He has been back for about 3 weeks and within the first week I noticed things were WAY different. I tried talking to him about it and he said everything was okay and the same as it was. So hearing him reasure me made me think it would all work itself out. But last night, somthing completely unexpected happened. He told me he didnt know if he loved me anymore. And he was thinking about breaking up with me. I was so shocked and couldnt belive it. I have cried constantly since. Idk if he is going to or not but just hearing him say "i dont love you like i did." kills me. I love this kid with all my heart and triied to explain that to him but idk if it helped. And it effecting me physically. im not sleeping at all, not eating and throwing up. What do I do to stay with him? I love him
2007-07-01 01:03:35 · 3 answers · asked by icplover4693 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and dont just say he is just a guy please. I have heard that form alot of ppl and he is not just a guy. He means the world to me. Idk what I would do if just suddenly i lost him.
2007-07-01 01:07:54 · update #1
Billy sure sounds like a winner.....trust me, you'll get over it.
2007-07-01 01:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would stay away from people with issues and who need rehab. those are usually the kind of people who dont respect themselves, therefore do not respect others. those are usually dependent people.
i dont know what his deal is. maybe he is playing games with your heart..knowing u love him a lot..he is telling u he is not really into you anymore plays with your emotions and makes u want him more. he has a dependent personality and is probably making u dependent also.
you are only 14. put your creative, fascinating womanly energies on school, job, projects. find another passion. something u can do for hours but feel like minutes.
this guy seems no good. it is not love if he makes u throw up and not eat. it is dependence. u dont want to be dependent. u want to be independent and strong.
2007-07-01 08:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say it is not good to be in a relationship the first year of sobriety. his health must come first
2007-07-04 07:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋