So me and my gf have made a comitment to try and stay virgins until we are married. (yes for some reason we see ourselves together that long).
So my cousins friends found out and came up to us and asked. "How retarded are you guys!!! What happens if the other one is horrible in bed? Huuuuuuh?"
My response was: What am i going to compare it to?
What are your thoughts on this? If you have never had it before can someone really be horrible?
2007-06-30 19:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by Chris 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First: I think you might have misread the question.
2007-06-30 19:16:23 · update #1
That was a good answer to your cousins! I don't think you can think someone is horrible if they never did it before. And would it matter if they were? It's your wife and I think you would love some one even if their not so great in bed. Anyway good question,and God bless.
Stay Strong and don't let them influence you.
2007-07-01 02:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Alayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfect that you and her have decided to wait until your wedding night. Ignore your friends and think on these few points.
1) How would you know what was horrible or not, you've never been with anyone else. Besides the two of you will learn together and THAT is more satisfying.
2) Your friends are probably jealous that they don't have the integrity and self respect that you do. Or their angry you might have already found who you want to be with for life.
3) If the both of you have decided to wait together, who are your friends to come between what the two of you have together?
Truly hope that helped. Stay strong! :D
2007-07-01 03:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth i thought of it myself before and i think that friend of your cousin might be right in someways , sometimes it gets complicated and it can really be an issue, and you don't need other experiance to compare to cause you KNOW when you are not getting what you want and it's something natural ....but however it's your life and there is always other possibilities, and most likely couples can always work out this kind of problems , i'm not quite sure what to say back to that dude if you are looking for a get back for him, but think about what he said yourself and if you thought this is what you want and with all that you can always work it out somehow then the hell with what that dude said to you !
2007-07-01 02:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're asking for my opinion... & my opinion is this:
WAIT!!! Honestly, you'll feel so much better if you do! Plus, if you do, God will make it even more special for the too of you!
& Don't let your friends get the best of you. They have to give you a hard time. But DO NOT GIVE IN!!!
You'll be blessed in so many different ways & not just in the sex part either!!! It will help your relationship grow stronger!
Good luck & congrats on the impending nuptials! :)
2007-07-01 02:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Harley99 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one in my opinion can be horrible in bed (if they are normal healthy people with no hang ups ) he has to be nice loving gentle etc but your mates are mad if the guy is a good lover he will make her a good lover they are only bad if their partner is no good
2007-07-01 02:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by ausblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wel yah your right you cant compare it to anything but wouldent you ever wonder what good or bad was ? thats cool that you want to save yourself but come on dont you want to shop arround?
2007-07-01 10:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by ~@lL!e~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, anything lacking can be learned, so stick to your convictions....and congratulations.
2007-07-01 02:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You'd be an *** if you stopped loving her just for that.
If she really is that bad, you can teach her. :)
2007-07-01 02:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch porn
2007-07-01 02:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋