Im just a nervous wreck...?
Well from my other post my girlfriend of 4 years is pregnant. I am standing by her and we will get through this. We have a plan already talked it over with my parents its going to be okay.
I am nervous about the health of my gf, Tara. She has been suffering alot of medical stuff lately for the past year, there was a car accident, surgeries due her dancing, and many others.
She has become very clingy to me because there is no one else she has, we do live together with my parents. I soon have to start working again and leave her home, she says she'll be ok but i am a nervous wreck. If she stops breathing again, if something happens and no one is there, I am just so scared, her friends are very bad influences on her they go drinking until 2 and other out of line things. How can I stop worrying about her?
She has also been very sick lately; doctors are aware but that also makes me nervous if something happens with the baby.. all these thoughts! Whyy!?
2007-06-30 12:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Dude! I've been watching post after post of your crying. Isn't this baby yours, too? So why ask "why"? You know why she's pregnant. And why state that you are standing by her? She didn't do this by herself alone. If she has health/mental/emotional issues, then where was your concern when you got her pregnant? The only thing you've demonstrated so far is that you're going to do what feels good at the moment without any concern for the consequences. You can change that, of course, but it won't be from anything that you get spending all of your time on Yahoo!Answers. You've shown the world that you have the balls to make a baby; now just stop your belly aching and show the world that you have the balls to be a MAN.
2007-06-30 12:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough to deal with. Maybe your parents can keep her company..or you can get a night job and your parents will be home at night and she will not be alone. Try to work something out with your parents where they can help you keep an eye on her breathing.
if she is that ill and her friends expect her to go out and drink until 2..they are either just too immature or not good friends. If they were good friends they would care about her more and offer to spend time with her without putting her life in more danger. she should not be drinking anyway with medications she may take plus her pregnancy.
You sound like a good, decent and caring boyfriend..I'm sure you will make a good father..it already seems like parental instincts are kicking in..
work something out with a true friend, your parents, or maybe a friend of your family that doesnt work and can help out.
2007-06-30 12:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by snoopychick78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her your fears. You are in this for the long haul so it's time to lay it all on the line. If you think there is something more wrong with her that the docs aren't finding, I suggest getting a second opinion with another doc. You are awesome for sticking with this and not running. Shows you are a real man. Good luck!
2007-06-30 12:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Veritas☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situations like these suck, cuz you can't just give her a pill or soup and expect her to feel better.
Just be with her. Just let her know you're there. trust me, just knowing somebody out there cares about her, will make it so she can deal easier. it gives her a reason to be happy, cuz she knows you don't want to see her sad.
2007-06-30 14:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with her. dont go.
2007-06-30 12:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋