there was this guy who i went out with in middle school. lets just say it didnt end well. we didnt talk for a few years. then we started talking again, and i thought i might still like him (i was 18, he was 17). everytime we'd talk he would try to hold my hand and stuff. however, he would also try to avoid standing near me some of the times, and he tried to set me up with his friend.so i was confused and assumed he didnt want me. then i got a new b/f and brought him to church where my ex would be. not to "try to make him jealous". i just like to be with my bf. anyway, my ex comes up and scoops me up into this big bear hug in front of my bf (he usually doesnt hug me like that) and then turn to my bf and goes "who's this dude?" kinda snotty. and extents his hand to my boyfriend. my bf took it and squeezed it as hard as he could. the blood drained from my ex's face and he walked off without a word. now he stares at me and my bf with a really mean look on his face.
2007-06-30 11:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by lil333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so later when my bf wasnt around i asked him why he did that and he said he did it on purpose. so why is he acting so weird
2007-06-30 11:50:00 · update #1
oh and then the conversation turned to all the girls he supposively has a crush on
2007-06-30 11:51:14 · update #2
Just move on, why try to figure out old news!!
2007-06-30 12:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys sometimes develop an attitude of ownership with a female, even after they have broken up. He will want to have his freedom of course-and do what he can to keep you for himself at the same time. The bear hug at church was to signal to your new boyfriend that he has some ownership of you. Competition between the two needs to be avoided. Limit your time with past-and move forward in the present.
2007-06-30 12:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by PrivacyNowPlease! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex looks surprisingly blended as much as me and he or she does not seem to appreciate what she needs. What I study into it somewhat is that she isn't mad at you specially, she's only unhappy with the way her existence is going, the ideas she's made and that i ask your self despite if she even is familiar with a thank you to get it decrease back on course. As you stated, she does not even comprehend a impressive guy while she see's one. and remember, women human beings that are pregnant are quite comfortable, so as which would be a super part of it. My greatest suggestion to you is to objective and get her into some style of scientific care to help her decide which highway she desires to soak up existence, the only she's been on, or the different one.
2016-10-03 07:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he OBVIOUSLY dint know you had another b/f, who would just go up to you hug you like a bear* and say it was on purpose?* really. He still likes you. And all that talk about the girls he's crushing on, is just to make you jealous.
I'm sure he does..
2007-06-30 11:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lacadema (Role-player) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but isn't ready for a relationship. Forget about him and try not to let him cause any problems for you in present relationship.
2007-06-30 13:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Joy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature. He is playing games. Just keep moving forward..He has some growing up to do still..
2007-06-30 12:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is only trying to "steal" you away. once he gets you away from your current bf hell lose interest in you. i know a lotta guys that do this... which i find dishonorable. unfortunately women always fall for it. please, at least for your own sake dont talk to your ex anymore or else youll lose more than just your current bf.
2007-06-30 11:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go 2 police station n file harrasment charges.
2007-06-30 11:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by A K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's crazy and jealous and you should stay away and forget about him.
2007-06-30 12:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lil333, HON,Your x should be your x !Sounds kinda immature.
2007-06-30 11:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋