i bin seeing this girl 4 two weeks. 1st week was gr8, we really hit it off, she asks me to go to lunch with her monday and we did.
bcoz she works saturday morning and i work all day sunday. i said i wud book off my next sunday, so we cud spend time together. I ask co-mates if they cud cover my shift and i would cover there crappy shifts. They agreed. I tx her saying i got sunday off and she says she cant coz she gotta c family.
I was supposed to c her friday at pub with her mates but every1 never went and she went out 4 a meal. Im left doin nothing, coz i turned down my mates to c her. She said she wud go to pub saturday or i wud take her cinema and i wud pay. i turn down my mates again, to c her. i tx her saying wat time we meeting up, she says she goin to cinema with mates instead coz one of their b'days. She never tx me saying this, i had't to tx her.
she has a go at me, coz i said im dissapointed and she say she put friends first and that guys always hurt her. what shud i do??
2007-06-30 11:00:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol sorry about language. Trying to fit question, within the word limit.
2007-06-30 12:24:55 · update #1
If you speak ENGLISH clearly, we might be able to read your little confusing story and come up with answers.
2007-06-30 11:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
geez people can be harsh, I'm talking about some of the people that made comments about your shortcutting to tell us your story.
Anyways, I think its awesome that your making time to see her in your schedule. You must really like her which is great. At the same time, rushing into something doesn't make a good thing greater, it can actually make it turn for the worse. Which sounds like she was trying to tell you that, she has priorities of family and friends and she will fit you in when she can. Its not that she doesn't want to see you but she just met you and can't be dissing her family and friends right now to see you who the potential of hurting you is great.
So take it slow, let the relantionship grow naturally, if your work schedules conflict then work around it, you might not be able to see her as much as you wanted, but remember you just met her and all of that could change later on. Good luck with it, and I hope you both are able to give eachother your space while getting to know eachother.
I think you should apologize to her.
2007-07-08 17:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by artsysoap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be for a while. She probably is not ready to get into a relationship with another guy just yet and just wants to hang with friends. In a couple of weeks you might tx her and ask her if she would like to go out sometime and when.
2007-06-30 18:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should apologize to you cuz it's her fault for standing you up. She should tell you in advanced if she can't do something instead leaving you hangin. So far you haven't shown any signs of hurting her so she shouldn't categorize you and automatically assume you are going to hurt her. She hasn't even given you a chance.
2007-06-30 18:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the relationship is over. You waited day and night for her and this is how she treats you? Not right. You turned down your friends for her and insted she goes off with her friends. Dont even apologize just break up.
2007-06-30 18:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by em0world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is blowing you off. She is showing total lack of concern for your efforts to see her. id move it on down the line, and quit texting her. After all your effort , if she is not willing to give up her friends or family for one night, Doesnt THAT tell you something
2007-07-08 14:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I were you, I'd move on. If she was interested in spending time with you, she'd be trying a bit harder to make time. It sounds like she's trying to let you down easy. Take the hint.
2007-06-30 18:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off, some girls like guys that really want them, some girls like guys they have to chase. i think that she isn't ready to feel like she is making any type of commitment so soon after a relationship. at this point, she needs some comfort of her friends... maybe she really likes you, but let her come to you next time and initiate the fact that she would like to hang out instead of always putting yourself out there.
2007-07-08 17:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is blowing you off lol and next time better english because its hard to understand what you are saying.
2007-06-30 18:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by CALI SWISS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is really not all that into you and if I were you I would quit calling and try to meet someone that truly wants to spend time with you. Don't rearrange your life around someone who doesn't want to be with you.
2007-07-08 13:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sophiesmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Texting is bad for a relationship. So is the apparent lack of proper spelling skills.
2007-06-30 18:05:22 · answer #11 · answered by artform.purist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋