Well today i went to the movies, and my boyfriend works there. So one of the managers, was talking to me and i asked him where John was (which is my boyfriend) and he said oh hes on break, so he asked me why, so i said " oh im his girlfriend", and he ade this look and said "your the secound person to say that 2 me", and i said what do you mean. He says "well about 3 weeks ago a girl said the same thing.......people i need help What does this mean, its kinda hard to know that hes not lying, but i dont know, would my boyfriend be cheating on me, but im not totally sure if thats possible because his Sister is a manger there also, and youd think that she would see him with some one, i just need some advice on how to handle this. PLEASE!!
2007-06-30 10:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by Amberbby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes my boyfriend did know that i was coming, in fact i said hi 2 him b4 the movie started, i found out about this after the movie, when i was standing there waiting there for my friend to get ot of the b-room....he was askin me bout my shirt cuz i had a band t on and he said like do i listen 2 them and do i like them really, so yeah then i asked him where he was and thats when it happend, it was just something i never expected, i just wanna know how to handle something like this?!?!?!
2007-06-30 10:59:09 · update #1
dump the lozer. hes cheaten'
2007-06-30 10:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sami S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your boyfriend know you were coming up there? You don't do pop ups. If you are the second person to say that, why would this guy say that to you. Sometimes people have motives. Even if his sister works up there she is not going to tell you if another female came up there to look for her brother. If you are comfortable enough to talk about things like that then ask him. Have you ever heard the saying ask your man first. Even if the answer you may get may not be what you think is true give it some time it will eventually show itself. I must tell you that when you ask him do not sound as if you have already accused him of cheating. Be tactful. Just tell him of the things that have happened and see what happens. One more thing if he becomes overly defensive you have your answer right there.
2007-06-30 17:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by B J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, when he answers and asks you why did you ask, tell him what happened. People tend to play that joke on girlfriends. Has he ever given you any reason to think that he is cheating? It must be a joke, cause when that actually happens, people tend to prefer to keep quiet rather than tell them so, he may be playing you a joke. You can also talk to other people at his work, someone else must have seen something, if something actually happened.
2007-07-08 13:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him... if he is cheating then dump him.. and if he isnt he cant get too offended by you asking him buecase its not like you were being suspicious about it.. someone said something to you that is pretty good evidence of cheating and you are curious about it.. its not like it is coming out of nowhere... and if he dumps you beucase you care about him and trust him enough to ask and not just snoop then you dont need him
2007-07-08 16:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by ed b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, I used to do that one too as a prank. Or variations of that one like "hey, I thought your girlfriend was a blonde?!"
2007-06-30 17:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The manager might be full of crap. trying to set you up for himself. seen it a handful of times before.
2007-06-30 17:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask your boyfriend
2007-06-30 17:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Julia W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. I think hes guilty though. Good luck!
2007-07-08 16:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Asking him.....ive learned its better to ask then snoop around...trust me.....But it kinda looks like he is sorry..
2007-06-30 17:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it but he's cheating on you!!break up w/him
2007-07-08 13:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by hawii_girl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋