i am 14 and i basically have no boobs?

Question

my friends are going crazy telling me i have absolutely no boobs and iam going crazy with them.
should i wear a big bra and then slowly but surely start stuffing it so it will look like i have boobs!
plz post an honest answer.
remember
i am 14 and dont yet fit into an A cup an all of my friends are at C and D cups
i feel terrible

no period!

ok maybe the D cup part would be a little exagerated so just a C cup

Answer 1

obviously your freinds are over grown freaks, tell them you are normal and they are not, I had the same problem when I was 14 now im about to be 18 and im a c.
So dont worry you will be fine its normal.

Answer 2

I was in you shoes, err bra when I was 14. I was also an A and it really bothered me then. But, let me tell you from experience, boobs do not grow at the same rate for all women. For some reason I did not get mine until I was about 18 and then only a B but I was happy with that. Remember, what makes boobs pretty and cool is NOT just about size, it's about the shape, the spacing (how far apart they are, etc) and the boobs you have now will probably not be the same ones you have when you're 20. So be patient and accept yourself as being beautiful. Case in point: Gwen Stephani (my idol) has little boobs, Cameron Diaz, widely recognized for being beautiful, has no boobs, Chili (from TLC) had no boobs, and the list goes on. The pont is that boobs are'nt every thing and frankly, your friends with the D-cps just aren't telling you what a pain in the but it it to run or do jumping jacks, etc.. Bib boobs are not all they're cracked up to be, and I've had a ton of guys tell me this. Be patient and accept your present boobs. Btw - I don't advise stuffing because every girl I know that has ever tried it (including myself) has had a very embarassing moment where a pad or stuffing is discovered at the wrong moment (like in gym class, or at a restaurant..) Then, that will be worse than having small boobs. Instead, find tops that make your bust look bigger, with no padding. Also remember all the cool girls who don't have boobs. Good luck!

Answer 3

I know how you feel. I am like totally flat and have been stuffing for years. The best thing to do is to buy a lightly padded bra, an a cup and slowly stuff it fuller and fuller and then move up to a b-cup, etc. I did this and now pad to a C cup. I feel so much better about myself. It is best to use a slightly padded bra to stuff so no one can tell your stuffing. I use nylons, but have used tissues. Be sure your ready to do it all the time, you can;t like stuff one day and be flat the next. Also be sure not to wear tops that are to low cut. It can be a little bit of a nervous life when you pad your bra a lot, but i I look so much better and feel so much more confident.

Hope this helps.

Sara

Answer 4

Stuffing your bra would look silly. I know how it is to be 14 and be very self concious about how you look compared to others. The fact is that some girls develop earlier than others and adult women's breasts come in all shapes and sizes.

I'd suggest buying a padded bra instead of stuffing something in one. A good place to look for one is JCPenney where they have AA cups with light padding to make you look like a full A cup. Later, if that's not enough, you could get the AA with heavy padding that would make you look like a B cup.

Above all, remember that everyone, no matter how perfect YOU think they are, has concerns of their own at this age. Chances are that this is no big deal to anyone except for you and they probably won't even notice whether or not you "enhance" your size or not.

Answer 5

Oh honey, please don't stress over the size of your boobs right now.........you have plenty of time for growth. you are only 14 and when i was your age i was totally flat chested, too! i was so humiliated that i did what you are thinking of doing,,,,,i bought a bigger padded bra and everyone laughed at me because they knew i was flat...and all of a sudden i showed up at school with these big padded bra boobs....it just drew more attention to my problem and they made fun of me. don''t worry, your time will come......as did mine. by the time i was 15 & 1/2 i was a full C cup.....thenh by the time i was 19 i was a 34 DD.....please be patient.....they will show up!!! do not worry!!!

Answer 6

You can buy the bra that has like water inside of it. I think it's called a wonderbra. My cousin uses one of those. She said that she bought it from Macys. It looks totally natural, really does I've seen her with it on. I guess you can use that while you are waiting for your boobs to grow. It's better than stuffing your bra.

Answer 7

Don't stuff it. It will look very obvious, and people will be able to tell what you are doing. You have plenty of time to grow. Breast size can increase until a woman is in her 20s, so relax.

Answer 8

calm down, just get u a good bra with wires in it to lift what u got.
use reflexology to make boobs grow and look better.
massage under breast in circles ,lifting toward throat.
http://www.reflexolgy.com
Dont worry, by time u are 18, your boobs will be bigger than
your friends.
But if not, guys think over a mouth full is wasted anyway.

Answer 9

First i dont know how ur friends can be in a D cup already.
and second NEVER stuff ur bra...there are alot of things that can go wrong with that.
just be patient...ull grow.

Answer 10

Lol still on this huh? well i seriously doubt every single one of your friends have C cups if your 14 your fine forget about it.