There's an older man I'm interested in, and I know he is interested/attracted to me, but I still want to do soemthing special for him. What do men in their 40's find sexy? I'm quite a bit younger and willing to try any suggestion within reason. Specific clothing? Makeup? Shyness? Assertiveness? A Woman who controls the situation and goes for what she wants?
A little more background info: He is divorced-going on 7 years single, has three kids, attractive by society's standards, pysically fit and is not shy about stating what he wants.
2007-06-30 09:56:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks to those who have answeres thus far. To be honest, it doesn't matter how much younger I am. The question wasn't if it is right or wrong, if that is the opinion you want to leave then do so under the questions that ask that. So, thanks again to those who really answered the Q and I wish I could pick more than 1 best. Keep the suggestions coming! :o)
2007-06-30 15:11:56 · update #1
What 40 year old men find sexy are 20 year old college co-eds. Need I say more?
2007-06-30 09:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Jenna,
Why not ask him what he finds sexy in a woman? While you're at it, why not ask him what he is looking for in his next relationship and take it from there?
From my experiences, (I'm 48), dating younger women that are attractive and attracted to older men, both should have common backgrounds and future plans, if your interest is for a relationship (beyond 2hrs. or 2mths). If so, then you the two of you need to talk, you should dress to impress appropriately, clean up your language, if need be? (he has kids). That is, if you want something more?
Confidence and maturity never hurts!
Good luck!
2007-07-01 11:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most older men at some point prefer total honesty,open conversation.Dress for the specific occasion properly with out having to be told what to wear. .Older men DO understand a woman is NOT a virgin and don't care to play the teenage game of yes/no/maybe. If you want to then say so.....George
2007-06-30 10:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by tgeorge12000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenna G, Dear I am 47 and I like clean hair some make up lipstick and a nice dress or skirt with stockings. "nylons" Smoke free wih a positive attitude and without cursing. Must have Jesus in her heart ! Likes being treated like a lady and is still able to get giddy and be childlike at Christmas.Growing up is mandetory, growing old is optional !
2007-06-30 10:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He wants you. Plain. no stinky perfume.. He also wants you to make the first move. Go and kiss him and tell him what you want.
2007-06-30 10:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gerald 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who says "Baldness and paunch turns me on."
2007-06-30 10:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show assertiveness...that will tell him you really want him, and give him a treat....maybe one of your friends join in?..........
2007-06-30 10:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress sexy and don't act shy!
2007-06-30 10:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HOW much younger are you?
2007-06-30 09:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are nassty
2007-06-30 09:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋