hey ive been with my gf over 7 months now, shes 16 and im 17. onli recently one of her best friends has been having an issue with me, she tells me she doesnt like me but she never gives me a reason why she dnt. she even had the cheek to tell my gf on myspace she hates me but shes never given a clear reason why though. i dont get it really, but im not going to let it affect my relationship with my gf but i cant help feel it is sometimes :( . all her other friends get on with me but she just hates me her friend, ive been talkin with m gf about it but her friend isnt giving a reason for it, why is this ???? i reeli dont want it to affect my relationship i have with my gf and i dont like people disliking me either. ive tried askin her m8 but she just tells me she hates me and gives no reason :S. shez like my gfs best friend and even shes nt telling her why she hates me i just dont get it. any ideas ?????
2007-06-30 06:59:14 · 12 answers · asked by lovestruck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she's her best friend and not giving a reason for hating you, then she's probably only jealous of you cuz she feels that you're taking her friend away from her (especially if she's a leo) and especially if that friend is spending alot of time with you lately.. leaving her jealous friend all by her self.. try involving her in your activities sometimes.. it will help
2007-07-08 04:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Deema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thinks you took away her friend, so she's jealous of you. maybe she doesn't like the way you talk, maybe she doesn't like the color of your hair. There could be a million reasons, but none of them should matter to you, because it's her problem, not yours. And stop trying to find out the reason, you job isn't to fix her, so why bother?
Sometimes, people just don't like you, it will happen again and again through life. Not everyone can get along and be friends. All you can do is just be yourself and treat people with respect. No matter how much you want to, you will never be able to understand or change the way someone thinks about you.
2007-06-30 14:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Portango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha that's like my old best friend. She use to hate all my ex's for no apparent reason. There just jealous that's all. She thinks your going to take her best friend away. Even if you give them a lot of time to spend together she's still going to think that. She will always be jealous until she finds a Boyfriend and gets sprung or something. She just cares for your girlfriend though i think. She doesn't want a guy ruining there relationship. Your going to have to try to prove to her that your not going to take her away. Why don't you try talking to her alone or something if it really bothers you. Or just ignore her if you can.
2007-07-08 08:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamer818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh... Looks like someone has their guard up around you . Unfortunately she probably has a crush on you and is trying extra hard not to like you. Be glad! Either she likes you or she doesn't like all the time her Best friend is spending with you. Does she have a Boifriend??? Maybey she is jelouse... Just give her space and tell your girlfriend that you don't want her to effect your relationship. Tell your girlfriend that you are trying to be her friend and that she is the one with the problem. Let her know that you are willing to try but you need her to meet you half way..
2007-06-30 14:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by May 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend hated my boyfriends. All of them. Turns out she was jealous that I was spending more time with the guys than with her. Not a gay thing, it was just that she felt that she was slowly being replaced. She never got over it. In fact it got worse when I got married. Funny enough, she stopped talking to me all together when she met a guy and we haven't spoken since.
To help with the problem, maybe your girlfriend needs to sit down with her friend and talk to her about the animosity.
2007-06-30 14:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by tigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore you she is just being mean, and she probably just wants attention, maybe she is jealous of you because you spend more time with her friend then she does, this maybe the reason she is saying this, she probably thinks she isn't getting enough attention and wants her to notice her.
Just ignore her and she will eventually stop, act like you don't care and don't say anything when she says something to you.She isn't your girlfriend and if your girlfriend really loves you she won't care what her friend says.
Hope this helps.
Teresa.
2007-06-30 14:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Minnie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you did something, unknowingly, to her. or maybe she has a crush on you and she's saying that she hates you openly because she trying to convince herself that she really does and her reason for doing so (instead of just keeping quiet) is because she is feeling guilty for having feelings for her best friend's boyfriend? girls are really complicated, you should ask for assurance from your girlfriend that she will never leave you because of her best friend. and when she has done so, ignore every thing that has happened or will happen. best of luck!
2007-07-08 07:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think she is jealous of her ur gf. talk to ur gf and ask her wat she thinks is the best thing to do. i would let it go, so it wont affect ur r-ship by someone who is really not her friend and wants 2 c her happy. Good Luck with that!
2007-06-30 14:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know!!Your ex is feelin dissed.Your dating her best friend!!!!
So thats hard.Your ex still has feelings for you.try to make amends with her.And realize thats like her going and dating your best friend!Realize that.And now you know y she hates you.Inside she doesnt hate you.She loves you!
2007-06-30 14:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kelsey C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u Feel Just as a friend or anything else?
2007-06-30 14:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Karthick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋