I am going for this girl for 6 months but she still refused to accept me as her boyfriend. I had already done so many things for her; buying stuffs that she likes, send her to uni everyday, bring her to any places she wants to go, treating her every meals. She is the type of girl who like to go clubbing and i suspect she is lesbian. Then both of us went back to our country for holidays which she came back 1 week earlier than me. I find out that my feeling towards her is starting to fade away. I don't really miss her like how i miss her when we were in oversea. I am really confused now..please any advice? I don't know what to do
2007-06-30 05:38:23 · 9 answers · asked by Kingkaza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i tell her how i feel?
2007-06-30 06:05:19 · update #1
Boy...whyyyyyyy where you buying her things, taking her places when your NOT EVEN TOGETHER?!?!?!?! MOVE ON!! She sounds like she was just using you for the stuff you were doing for her.
You'll find better.
2007-06-30 05:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Flip-Flop Crazy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first instinct is the one you go with, it's telling you something listen to it. Seems like she don't appreciate the kind things you do so why keep doing them. If you don't feel the same towards her or miss her the way you did in the beginning it's time to move on. I don't think you are confuse, maybe hard to except, but in time you will be fine.
2007-06-30 12:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see in my understanding that maybe you are starting to feel used and that it is a one way path with you and her??? You are doing all these things for her but ask yourself what is she doing for you in return? Does she show you the affection you need or does she come around when it is convenient for her and only when she wants something??? Go with your gut instinct and let her go and stop paying her way. And I believe you would feel better after that, but only you can make that decision and not anyone else!!!
2007-06-30 12:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by kimthornton1231 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kingkaza, sounds to me like you have found yourself a good friend and that might be all this relationship is. If by now your feelings aren't being returned then it probably isn't meant to be. And if you are questioning this females sexual preference then that is a red flag also. Be glad that you have a good friend and look elsewhere for someone to have a loving relationship with.
2007-06-30 12:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become her friend, again!! No extra special treatment...just a friend!! If she doesn't notice the difference in the way of Ur behavior....than from her reaction of it go from there!!
It is very natural to lose feeling for someone U care about when the affections are not returned....but to possibly save Ur friendship....become her friend and Not her suitor!!
Good Luck
2007-06-30 12:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by SuasGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun if she don't wanna be ur gf then quit wasting ur money and time on her cause u could be spending that on a girl that appreciates u and loves u for who u are cause its seems to me no offense hun that this gurl doesn't like u like dat .
2007-06-30 12:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me that she just used you for everything you did for her let your feelings fade away completly and move on
2007-06-30 12:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it fade...and probably she will start wanting you since she does not have you anymore... but then you will be moved on.
2007-06-30 12:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by noner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-06-30 12:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋