I've been seeing this girl on and off for the past 3 months. Whenever we meet we really have fun and hit it off real well. The first month was great we saw each other regularly but I guess we were moving too fast and she felt uncomfortable. Now for the past two months we barely see each other. I try calling her sometimes and e-maling her but she would not respond until a week later. She told me she has some abandonment issues and stress that she has to work out. This happened 3-4 times where we would meet, had a good time at the movies and hanging out and then we would not hang out for another couple of weeks. In between I would e-mail and call but not response until a couple of days or a week has past. She would say sorry and that I deserve a better women, etc. but would still see me a couple of days later.I really like her and have develop feelings for her but she is making it very difficult for me to continue seeing her. Very nice girl.Does she feel the same for me?What should I do?
2007-06-30 05:17:21 · 13 answers · asked by ruijei613 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you really need to talk to this girl. Tell her about your feelings for her and that you want to keep seeing her (assuming you do). However, don't forget to tell her that you are concerned for her and that you would be OK if she doesn't want to see you anymore. Remember to treat her with courtsey and respect, and don't get angry if she says she wants to end the relationship for good
2007-07-08 04:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Goldenfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing games, twisting you round her finger and showing her friends how you'll do anything for her.
She's right on one thing-you deserve a better woman. Ignore her and stop calling, e-mailing and whatever else. If she comes crawling back don't continue seeing her. Dump her for good and start your search for another girl. Concentrate on something else to get over her-and sorry honey but she can't be that nice if she's acting like that.
2007-07-08 02:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you get frustrated - like others in same situation. Try not to concentrate on her all the time, but have open eyes to see that there are a lot other girls to date. If she has the feelings you want from her, I suppose she will be more interested in you - and show it.
2007-07-08 12:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by baltus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how sweet of you, well i think shes wasting your time, if she tells you that you deserve a better women, maybe you do. Or maybe she has some confidence issues and doesn't feel herself worthy to have a guy like you. Talk to her if your really interested in her ask if she likes you or not. Good Luck!!
2007-06-30 12:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by εїз TANYA εїз 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing games with you for sure and keeping you dangling as a 'back up'. she is indeed saying that she is not that into you and trying to spare your feelings. tell her that you like her and would like to be there for her then do not respond further. sound like you are being 'needy' with so many emails etc and that could be a turn off in itself. play a little harder to get. sometimes ppl want what they think they can't have.
2007-07-08 11:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a sister see if the sister will talk to you and see whot is going on with yur girl
2007-07-08 12:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by sarahrenee13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a girl.. and if i say 'you deserve a better woman', i ALWAYS mean 'I am not into you as much as i think i should' .. which also means 'i'm not that into you'..
sorry, but it's probably the case with her too
2007-07-08 11:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Deema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on, put your time and energy into dating someone more less stressful
2007-07-08 03:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by triniunispy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so,cause if girl really likes man they wont make it hard for a man to wait or telling any kinds of reasons .
2007-07-08 11:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that you want to be there for her and listen to whatever maybe bothering her...girls love guys who attentively listen and ask us questions about what we are talking about so that we know they are listening that makes us feel special
2007-07-07 15:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋