I have been cheated on before... so i dont know if it has anything to do with it.. but...
here is the situation...we have dated for a 1yr now.
.we are with eachother almost everyday...all day..
he never tries to rush me off like home or anything, he always wants to know what i think of his dressing styles, he asks me to come sit at his jobs with him( hes a security guard) i spend a lot of time at his house. our families both know eachother,we talk on the phone like 3 times a day when we are no with each other...
but
when people call him he says he has to call them back, or doesn't answer, he checks his voicemail in front of me but then turns the volume down... and i asked him why? he said its too loud in his ear.. but if he was trying to be sneaky about it why whould he check in right in front of me.... ??? he has text messages in his phone to girls back in his country but he doesn't bother to erase it or anything....he is not protective over his phone... so am i trippin?
2007-06-30 04:38:02 · 11 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he always wants me to come to his job and sit with him, he asks me to come over to his house right when he gets off work... but i still think hes talking to other random women in different states online and on the phone... should i just get over it, b/c i know he is always with me?
2007-06-30 04:39:28 · update #1
If you can't trust him then leave.
2007-06-30 04:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ma'am should know this by now....... your gut feelings don't lie to you ( And I say this is a home girl tone and non threatening by the way)!!! Follow your gut and mind!!!! I had this guy that I have known for almost a year and I caught him up on a myspace lie so technology has opened the game a little more deeper. Not to sound too scenical but some guys and not all will try to play women for dummies right in their faces, but don't trip on him about it just weigh your options out and think with your mind on this and not your heart because it's obvious that you care a whole lot about this man. My home girl found her boyfriend of 3 years cheating on her once again with technology on myspace and found out that he had a family and they lived together so I mean there are different scenarios but go with you mind and gut on this one!!!
2007-06-30 11:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by kimthornton1231 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't be dumb enough to check something that would give him away. with the voicemail thing, he may have been turning it down to keep you from hearing something that didn't matter to him, but would make it hard for you to trust him. I don't think that hes cheating if hes doing everything in front of you, but you should still keep on your toes just in case.
Good luck and hope this helps!
2007-06-30 11:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off if you have no solid evidence that this guy is cheating on you then stop making assumptions. I think with yoiur past BF cheating on you your having difficulties trusting any man that you are involved with. Unless he is and you catch him in a lie I would say you are positively trippin.
2007-06-30 11:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well. There are LOTS of guys who are cheating. And most of them are kinda sneaky about it. They will give off body language that rats them out. I think that your boyfriend is clean.
But when you get those funny feelings, it is indeed something to pay attention to. My vote is that he is not messing around.
2007-06-30 11:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by rush.limburger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then ask him.
But if he has friends, even female, why would you want to take the privilege of him speaking with them, away from him. Would you want him to stop your association with your friends?
Until you get this settled this relationship will die. You cannot have a healthy one with suspicion & doubt.
2007-06-30 11:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he checks his voice mail in front of you ask him to let you listen..if he refuses then he has something to hide...tell him you have been cheated on before and you are sorry to accuse him but you have to know.. if he loves you and isn't cheating he will understand and be prepared to prove to you he isn't cheating.
2007-06-30 11:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by tysbev4ever 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, so you don't really have evidence that he's cheating on you or anything. So, I say, only if you do have real evidence that he's cheating on you, then dump him. Otherwise, you have nothing to be worried about.
2007-06-30 11:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES girl get over it but keep yo eyez open..
2007-06-30 11:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by BRIDGETTE F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no babes dnt rush it.dnt believe sumthin until u hav enough evidence.have faith dear.
2007-06-30 11:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by angellic_ash0987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has an affair with a girl which cant be normal (married girl, cousin, aunt etc)
2007-06-30 11:42:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋