Since the beginning of this year, my guy friend has been flirting with me a lot...I always had a feeling that he liked me and I always liked him back but I didn't want to say anything b/c it was horrible timing (my best friend also liked him and asked me if I could help hook her up and at the time I was unsure if he could ever be more than a friend) and so I just kept it to myself...but now, a couple months later, I still really like him, but is it too late to do anything???
Him and my other friend have already gone out and broken up 2 days later (she asked him out and she broke it off)....he didn't seem that upset though.....and before school ended (a couple months after him and my friend went out)I found out that he was going out with another girl....but he wasn't the one to tell me....I found out from another friend even though me and him are really close
2007-06-30 03:37:52 · 6 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't think it's too late, but you need to think about a few things before you do anything. Firstly, how strong is your friendship with this guy? You need to understand that if you say something to him and he doesn't react well, then you might go through a bit of separation, and if the friendship isn't that strong, there is a chance it might not survive at all. Of course, this does also hinge on how mature the guy is. You don't say how old you all are, but it needs to be handled delicately if he's a little on the immature side.
Secondly, how much do you value the friendship? If you want to be with him as his girlfriend more than you want him as your friend, go ahead now, but otherwise, you need to know that he will handle your 'confession' well before risking your bond with him if you value him a lot.
Thirdly, talk to your friend. She might not have been with him for very long, and she was the one who broke it off, but you do owe her the courtesy of at least telling her how you feel about him, even if he is more your friend than hers. It's just a nice courteous thing to do. You don't need to ask her permission exactly, but it's best to let her know the situation.
Good luck. Weigh up all the options before you do anything, and you will realise the right thing to do for everyone concerned.
2007-06-30 03:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by alex2410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes u. find out if he is still going out w/ some1 else. and who that is. do uk her? could she go 2 ur school? does she really like him? if the answers r no, then u could tell him u like him and c if he breaks it off. that is very risky tho!
so, a safer option is to wait until they break up, and then tell him. if they go out 4 a while , the intervention may be necessary (if u really cant wait). ik it may sound wrong, but u may want 2 c where he is going and see if he is really enjoying himself when they are 2gether. (or if ur not crazy, then that may not be an option).
you can also ask him yourself, and y he didnt tell u himself. IT MAY JUST BE A RUMOR! if it is, then u can tell him u like him. ask him if he really likes her (@ first casually). if he says yes he may actually like her, or is trying 2 make u jealous. if he is not so enthusiastic, then u can tell him.
2007-06-30 10:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now!!!!!!!! There was a girl I liked and never told her I regret it to this day. I have no clue where she is now. I know she's still single though I think.
2007-06-30 10:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by BamaJJP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go tell him how you feel. And the sooner you do so, the better off you'll be. Good Luck.
2007-06-30 10:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its too late. Go for it and good luck to you my friend!
2007-06-30 10:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by hockeychic18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never to late...
2007-06-30 10:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by lauren the liger;]]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋