2007-06-30 03:27:22 · 26 answers · asked by GIO LO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I could easily say the whole "move on yada yada yada" But i see where you are coming from. So my answer is this. If you love her then you have to be her Friend...so lets look at it that way....would you advise one of your friends to be with someone they didn't love because the other loved them? Would you advise one of your friends to keep at it if they were not loved back. I know it is hard at times but be her friend now. Love her from where she wants to be loved (afar) for now. Who knows maybe in time things will change. But be a friend to her and yourself and do your best at it. Good luck!
2007-06-30 03:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by . S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just leave her alone & find someone else.
If you continue pressing your affections on her, you run the risk of being arrested & prosecuted. You will also gain a reputation for being a stalker, which could ruin your later chances at trying to attract a girl that is actually interested in you.
If you find that you are compulsively drawn to following her & that many times you are doing activities that could be described as stalking (Sitting outside her house waiting for her without any invitation from her, watching her repeatedly without her knowledge or consent, retrieving things just because she's touched them, sending semi-threatening or obsessive mailings or calls) you should go about seeing a therapist. Most people have gone through something like this in their life, albeit in different levels of severity. There is nothing wrong with finding someone to talk to about it. If you are unaware or unable to find a therapist, you can go to your local ER. They can arrange to find someone to talk to you.
2007-06-30 10:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all..I'd like to say..lots of guys have the same problem with me..and they would do anything to get me.They're doing all it takes to be with me...and they always say to me..they re never gonna give up on me,they heart will always be open for me.
now...think about...how r u so sure that the girl doesn't love u?....how u thought about probably she loves u but she doesn't want to show it to u..so quick/soon.Girls like a guy that's always hot on their back.They want to see how much u would love them.
Sometimes she's staying away from u..becuz maybe when she sees u..she tents to be speechless...I mean u know that feeling.
Lastly....how u told her about your feelings,desire,love,passion u have for her...how u told her how much u're craving for her..u should look into all that..before anyone..make u give up on her..or before u give up on her...Sometimes..when u feel your heart belong to someone..u need to go crazy finding why is she and she's being so difficult.U need to go after what u desire...So i'll say..don't give up...and continue tryin for awhile. Then if it doesn't work out...Tell her whats exactly on your mind for her...and move on to someone else..that may need your love
2007-06-30 10:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Annabella 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its already solved here!
Dont pressuraize both of you on such a thing coz love is the only thing that is non-negotiable.
Either time will change matters and hearts but at the time being you respect yourself as a dignified loser lover and her wishes as she wants it to be.
2007-06-30 10:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sara007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone before you end up in jail for stalking.If she doesn't love you, then you cannot MAKE her love you.That is a painful fact of life, so deal with it.Hurt ,heal and move on.
2007-06-30 10:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do really. It's her choice.
Let it go. Just because you love her, it might feel like it's meant to be but if she doesn't return the feelings than it's not. It happens to everyone
2007-06-30 10:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by GollyBeth! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone who does love you and wants to be with you.
2007-06-30 10:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was sort of in the same position as you a few months back.
I really liked this girl...she liked me but not as much. She got over me. So i started to like someone else. Granted it is her best mate. But everytihngs better now.
FIND SOMEONE ELSE
2007-06-30 10:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Wayne A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing for you to do; you're out of the running; you've lost. You're beating your head against a brick wall.
You cannot force a person to like you.
2007-06-30 10:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, consider the facts. do you really really like her, and does she really really like you. if anything, the more you push your way into her life, the more she will avoid you. best way to make a girl like you, is to show that you have no interest in her. it just makes them want your attention because you always give her attention. she will notice that you have changed the way you act, it might actually help you. so just relax, let her have space, and you might get something out of it. good luck
2007-06-30 10:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by mrizsuki 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋