im in love with a girl who has a bf but there could be a small chance that something could happen
she said there is something there but not sure what it is
she's all i think about its driving me nuts not being with her
any advice
2007-06-30 03:26:40 · 15 answers · asked by sparky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANKS EVERY1
2007-06-30 07:57:59 · update #1
She's trying to be nice to you, without telling you to leave her alone. If she wanted you, she'd dump the boyfriend and be with you, since she hasn't, you need to step back and find a new girl to stalk.
2007-06-30 03:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes the attention you are giving her on top of the attention she receives from her boyfriend. No point liking someone that has a boyfriend. Go out and meet someone else, then she´ll come running after you if shes interested or she wont do anything, but atleast you will then know if she´s really into you or not.
2007-06-30 03:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anja M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's love..
whatever happens..learn to save even just a little piece of you before it ends..and trust me..whatever you do it's gonna end..and when it ends..it's gonna hurt..
when she's happy..be happy for her..don't show your hurt in front of her..you don't want her to feel guilty do you??
remember...like is different from love..if you do the right moves..maybe like could change to love..
continue being true, friendly, nice, and let her know that she's special..but don;t go beyond the bounderies..remember..she's not yours...she's taken..
whatever happens between her and her boyfriend..be with her..let her know she's special..but don't try to say that "your boyfriend's not worthy come to me instead" don't do that..that's kinda what her close girl friends should say..
respect her decision..
and if she and her bf breaks up...don't do the move yet..just try to let her know that your friends..and help her move on...and eventually her feelings will grow or develop to you..
^_^
2007-06-30 03:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by </3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the hardest thing in the world, when your in love with someone who is spoken for. You have to be careful, if shes given you signals and then taken them back, she is enjoying the attention also consider, if you do win her heart, whats to say she will not be flattered by the next guy who gives her attention. I don`t mean to sound harsh but by the sounds of it, you only see the good because your head over heels in love with her. GOOD LUCK ANYWAY!!!!
2007-06-30 04:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by debz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make out your desperate, your playing it good it seems, but dont make a move till she finishes with this guy if she does. Imagine how you would feel if you was her current boyfreind. Who knows she could be even just messing with you. Dont set your heart on someone already taken. Try and meet other people that are free still and widen your options.
2007-06-30 03:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a player to me! If she was genuinely interested in you then she would have split up with her boyfriend. My advice is to stay away as you could be blamed for her relationship breaking down. This one is up to her.
2007-06-30 03:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing you a wee bit. I would act disinterested and see what happens. if you act keen then she may string u along because the attention u give makes her feel good.
2007-06-30 03:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by juicy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone until the boyfriend is out of the picture. She'll respect you more in the long run.
2007-06-30 03:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing with you. she will stay with him, except you find a way to show her you're better than him.
find out what attracts her and try to impress her. if you like her so much, don't give up,
but don't ever make a fool of yourself.
if you feel blind, then ask, but just don't let yourself to be her toy.
2007-06-30 03:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good you admit there is a small chance,
what happens if that chance doesn't come?
2007-07-04 02:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by anne o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋